Muroora mutsva navamwene

Vamwene munhu akakosha chose. Vakawanda havakwanisi chose kugarisana navamwene. Ukaverenga mwadhi dzinosvika mubhokisi rangu unotoona kuti shuwa kune varoora vakawandisa vanofunga kuti vamwene munhu wekutogara kure naye. Kune madzimwenewo vanoshungurudza varoora vavo asi kazhinji muroora ndiye anozviita mazvikokota wepamusha paawana pane vanhu kare. Pane nyaya dzinoda kuhwisiswa usati watanga kugara omurume wako mutsva. 

Ukatarisa paBhaibheri zvakataugwa naMWARI muna Genesis 2 ndima 24 zvakahi MURUME achasiya vabereki vake onamatirana nomukadzi wake vaviri voita nyama imwe chete. Mutemo wakapiwa vanhu pakutanga kwemitemo imwe yese.Takadaro tosvika mubhuku raMatiyo 19 ndima 5 tinohwa Mwanakomana otaurazve nyaya iyoyo achishandisa mashoko iwawozve. Tobvapo tosvika mubhuku raVaEfeso muparidzi Pouro otaurazve nenyaya iyoyo achishandisazve mashoko amwewo.

Zvino isu kurudzi gwedu tinoti mukadzi ndiye anosiya vabereki vake otevera murume  wake. Ukazvitarisa unoona kuti ndipo panobva kunyongana ipapo. Kubatana kwamai nomwanakomana wavo kunonetsa kubvisa kuzhe kwekuti iye ega azvitaurira kuti akura saka avakuda kubva pamusha kuti anovaka musha wake ega nomukadzi wake.

Iwe somuroora ukasvika pamusha wemurume ukawana mai vake vachimubikira musi wekutanga chaiwo munopokana chero zvenyu musingaudzani kuti mapokana. Mai vanoda muroora asingavataridzi kuti basa rese ravanga vachiita kwemakore avakarera mwana wavo rasvika parinoperera nokuti mukadzi wake avapo anozvikwanisa. Hakuna munhu anoda kudzingwa basa. Mai vake vachazama kuchengetedza basa ravo nomoyo wose iwe uchizama kuvatorera basa iri nomoyo wose. Saka mungasapokana sei?

Chikuru kutaridza rudo, Rudo gunokangamwira zvakaipa zvinoitika. Chero ukatukwa, chero ukapopotegwa, chero ukaramwigwa zvawabika kana kuudzwa kuti hazvinaki, usaora moyo kana kutaridza kutsamwa. Kumbira ruregerero chete wowedzera zviito zvakanaka kwavari. Usakangamwa kuti vanenge vachikutesita kuti vaone LIMIT yako futi.

Kuzvininipisa uchiziva chinangwa chako chinhu chakakosha. Kana vakakuti ita ichi kana icho, bvunza kuti chinoitwa sei, chero uchitochigona bvunza maitire vakuudze maitire avo ivo.

Wapedza bvunza kuti waita zvakanaka here? Wadaro nyora maitire avo pasi kuti musi wavanouya kumba kwako uvaitirezve saizvozvo. Kutaridza kuda kudzidziswa chinhu chikuru chinovapa basa idzva rokudzidzisa kuti ruzivo gwavo guite segune basa. Muroora anoti asvika pamusha oda zvokutaridza kuti anogona ichi neicho hakuna kwaari kuenda nomurume uyu. Vamwene munhu anofanira kubatwa noungwaru kuitira mberi kana uchida upenyu hwakareba nomwana wavo.

,Kuzviitamwanakwavari.
Mwana haapinduri mubereki pakutsamwisana.
Mwana anokanganisa mubereki haakanganisi. Hwisisa PSYCHOLOGY yacho.
Mwana anokumbira ruregerero, mubereki anoregerera.
Mwana anotevera zvido zvevabereki mubereki anotungamirira mwana.
Mwana anodzidza, mubereki anodzidzsa

Mwana anobvunza, mubereki anopindura.

Kana musi wamune mufaro nemerana navamwene vako pane vaenzi kuti vaite manyawi newe.

Hwikwa uchitaura kuti wadzidza zvakawanda kubva kuna vamwene vako.

“Mai musandirega ndichiita zvandakaita paya pakauya Mbuya Mai Nhingi pandakatadza kuita chokuti nechokuti. Dai mange musipo ndaitoshaya chokubata nokusaziva. Kana ndava neimba yangu motogara pedo nefoni ndigopota ndichibvunza.”

Kutaura zvakadai shamwari dzavo nehama dziripo kuti vahwe kudadiswa nokudzidzisa muroora wavo. Taridza kufara kuti una mai vanogona kuva mai. Hazvinei kuti wakadzidza kana kuti mai vako vokubereka vakakudzidzisa zvese izvi nyebera kuti wange wakangamwa.

Vamwene vakagwara pamusha hwisisa kuti ndiwe munhu wokutanga anofungigwa uroi saka kana wange uchizviita mazvikokota wepamusha hakuna anokununura. Kana wange uri munhu akazvininipisa, vamwe vepamusha vanokubatsira. Iwe muroora chiona kuti wotomiramira kuita nesi wavo kusvika vava nani.

Mai vemurume munhu wekushamwaridzana naye nomoyo wose. Unovabvunza zvinhu zviri SECRET kuti vaite shamwari yako yepamoyo. Unoterera zvavanokuraira kuti ugare uri mwana wavo. Kana ukatukana nomurume wako, enda unobvunza mai kuti zvoitwa sei asi vaudze kuti mwana wavo unomuda, unomukudza, unoda kuti afare mumba. Kana muchida kuronga mhuri yenyu enda ubvunze vamwene kuti zvaunofunga ndizvo here. Hwisisa kuti ndivo vachashusha mwana wavo kana wanonoka kuita mimba. Hwisisazve kuti vanoda kuziva kuti mwana wavo anozvarisa here, sezvinongoitawo mai vako kuda kuziva kuti uchaita mimba riini. Rega vakupe mazano.

“Mai mungandibatsirawo here kufunga. Ndaitaura nomurume wangu kuti dai tambomira kuita mwana kusvika ndapedza kosi yandiri kuita inopera gore rinouya. Tipeiwo mazano nemafungire enyu. Mari yatinokwanisa kuwana haikwani ini ndichiri kuchikoro.” 

Unobvunza muri vaviri chete pasina umwe munhu. Unohwa vokutaurira zvakadzama zviri mufungwa dzavo nokuda kwekuti wataridza kusununguka kuvabvunza OPINION yavo panyaya dziri Intimate.

Bvunza mafungire avo pazvinhu zvinovaka musha. Kana ukatsamwisana nomurume, Bvunza vamwene nechibhende kuti woita sei. Chero uchiziva zvokuta bvunza chete. Vanokuudza mafungire avo. Kana magadzirisana vaudze kuti Advice yavo inoshanda.

Wana mukana wekuudza vamwene kuti murume wako unomuda zvisingaiti. Bvunza mai vake zvinhu zvanodiwa nomurume wako.

Mai ava ndivo KEY yokumhuri yese yemurume wako. Kana ukahwisisana navo watova munhu anogamuchigwa kwese. Svika pakuti kana pane vanhu iwe navamwene munokwanisa kungotaurirana nemaziso chete pasina shoko rabuda muchihwisisana nokuti munozivana. Kwese uko kune dzimwe hama kunosvikwa nomuna vamwene.

Chikuru chinokanganisa ukama kuonekwa somunhu anodada kana kuzviona souri pamusoro pavo. Kudzidza pa ACADEMIC EDUCATION hazvirevi chinhu kana usina kudzidza pa SOCIAL EDUCATION. Kana uri munhu uya anofunga kuti vanhu vakuru vese havana kuchenjera sewe uye vanhu vasina kudzidza vanotarisigwa pasi, uchagara upenyu hune matambudziko. Munhu akadzidza munhu anokwanisa kuita naya nevanhu vakawanda kupfuura asina kudzidza, uye kutaudzana nevana vadiki, vanhu vakuru, vanhukadzi, vanhurume, chembere, vadhara, hama, shamwari. Kudzidza chinhu chakanaka chose asi ukasachibata zvakanaka chinokuitira chinhu chakaipa. Hwisisazve kuti mai ava ndivo vakaita njere dzokudzidzisa iyeyo wauri kuti murume wako. Chivapawo rukudzo pane zvavakakuitira.

Ndichadawo kumbotaura naana vamwene pakugamuchira varoora vavo. 

Udzai Vamwe!!!!!!

Vabereki Pamusha peVana vakaroorana

Toda kumboongorora nyaya yokugarisana nevabereki vemukadzi kana kuti vemurume mese muripo pamusha pamwe muri kumusha pamwe muri mutaundhi pane imba imwe chete. Mitemo yokugarisana inofamba sei kuti pasaita kupokana.

Chokutanga ngatihwisise kuti vabereki vavana vanoroorana mazuvano vabereki vava mumakore anongira kuma 45 achikwira. Tadaro tinoonazve kuti kune vanhu vanoroora nokuroogwa vava kumakore anoita 30. Ukatarisa varume vakashaikigwa nevakadzi kana kurambana nevakadzi ivo vava kumakore 50 kana kupfuura unoona vachitoda kuroorazve uye kuzvarisana. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vachiri kuvana mudzimba dzavo asi ivo vave nezvizukuru.  Ndipo panobva nyaya yese inokwanisa kutadzisa vanhu kugarisana nevana.

Kana mai nababa vako vakushanyirai, ngavashanye havo asi ngavazive kuti magarire apamusha wenyu anochinja kusvika vadzokera kwavo.

Tiri kuenderera mberi nenyaya yedu. Toda kuyananisa vabereki nevana pamusha. 

Vana vakaroorana vanovata sei uye vanoita ruzha pakuvatana sei? Ko ivo vaberekivo vakagara vhiki mbiri varipo zvinoita here kuti vahwkwe vachivatana?

Ndinhohwa vanobvunza vachibvunza kuti voita sei navamwene vasina hanya nokuti muroora anofanira kufadza murume wake mwana wavo. Vanongoona sokuti mwana wavo mwana mudiki asinei nezvokuti ane mhuri.

Vane zvokutaura taurai tihwe.

" Vatete, Ndakadyiswa Chiremwaremwa"

" Vatete, Ndakadyiswa Chiremwaremwa"

Mukadzi akaenda kumusha (Zimbabwe) kubva ku UK, ndokunoita vhiki nhatu ariko. Mukadzi nomurume vaigarotukana mumba murume achiti anoda mwana mukadzi achiti anoda kutanga apedza kosi yake younesi. Akandisvikotambira Kisimisi kumusha ndokudzoka ndokusvikoita mazuva, kutukana ndokudzoka mumba. Murume kutora mapiritsi omukadzi achiviga kuti mukadzi asamwa mapiritsi emimba. Murume anobvuma hake kuti akakanganisa pakuviga mapiritsi asi anoti mukadzi zvaakazomuitira zvakakurisa saka haachadi mukadzi.

Ko chiiko chauri kuti mukadzi akakuitira chikuru kudai? Kwahi hazvitauriki. Murume akarova mukadzi. Mukadzi ndokudana mapurisa murume ndokusungwa. Asungwa mapurisa haana kunatyohwisisa. Murume akawana chigaba chemushonga webhutsu chakavigwa muAiring Cabinet, ndokushamisika kuti sei mumba mune mushonga webhutsu tsvuku asi pasina anebhutsu tsuku. Paakachivhura wanei mune zvinhu zvaasingabati kuti zvii. Adaro ndokuvigavo pake. Mukadzi adzoka ndokubvunza kuti ko ichi chiiko? Mukadzi kumboramba ndokuzoti abararadzwa ndokudura kuti akabva nazvo kumusha uye akazvipiwa namai nhingi vanotozikamwa nomurume wake.  Ko chiiko uye wakapiwa uchinzi uitei nacho. Kwahi ndakangopiwa. Murume ndokuwedzera kurova. Pakuzosungwa ange ava kutoziva kuti inyama yechiremwaremwa uye zvinoita sokuti akatodyiswa imwe yacho.

Chiremwaremwa. Kuchivhima, wochiomesa, wochikuye wopota uchiisira murume muzvokudya zvake. kkkkkkkkkkk.!!!

" Vatete, Ndakadyiswa chiremwaremwa. Ndoita sei naye mukadzi uyu. Handichamudi zvachose" Ini ndokubvunza kuti sei uchitsamwira mukadzi panyaya yokuti wadziswa chiremwaremwa usingazivi? Zvimwe zvese zvaanokudyisa sei usina kutsamwiswa nazvo? Pane zvakawanda zvinotengeswa muma Supermarket mu UK zvaanotenga achikubikira asi hautsamwiswi nazvo. Chakutsamwisa kuziva kuti aviga chiremwaremwa here kana kuti pane zvimwe. Sokuziva kwangu chiremwaremwa hachina poizeni nokuti kune dzimwe nyika vanozvidya pasina rufu.

Chii chingaitisa kuti murume atsamwe kusvika pakurova mukadzi kusvika asungiswa achiti nokuti adyiswa nyama yechiremwaremwa?

Kuti tidavire mubvunzo uyu ngatitange tabvunza kuti zvinobatsirei kutimukadzi anosiya nyama yomubhucha achinotsvaka yechiremwaremwa inochengetegwa muchigaba chomushonga webhutsu? Mhinduro chaiyo ndeyokuti hapana zvazvinobatsira. Nyama yechiremwaremwa haina kusiyana nedzimwe nyama asi kungoti zviremwaremwa zvinoparadzira zvigwere zvakaita se IBOLA Virus iyo yapedza vanhu kunyika dzokumusoro. Kana munhu ada nyama isiri yemhudzi kana mombe, zviri nani kutaura nomurume wako mobvumirana kuti moitenga kupi monoitenga. Kufidha murume wakaviga nyama zvenge zvisina musoro.

Mukadzi uyu anenge akaudzwa nhema nevanomuudza obva achengeta nhema dziya mumusoro odzishandisa opedzisira apokana nomurume kusvika pakusungisana. Tokamubvunzurudza tichahwa achitaura kuti mufungwa make mange musina nyaya yokusungwa asi kutoti aifanira kutevera nyaya yenhema yaakaudzwa.

Murudzi gwedu mune vanhu vanoparadzira nhema mumaraini vachiputsa misha yevamwe nadzo. Asizve handifungi kuti pavanhu vese vatinoziva pane munhu akamboona munhu achimira pagedhe remusha wake achishambadzira kuti ari kutengesa nyama yechiremwaremwa iri muzvigaba zvemushonga webhutsu. Ukatomuona munhu akadaro unomudaidzira sabhuku osungwa, nokuti zviremwaremwa hazvidyiwi munyika yedu uye kuchibata kunonetsa kana usiri muvhimi aneunyanzvi.

Saka kana kusina anouya kumba kwako achitengesa zvoreva kuti iwe kuti uzova nechigaba ichi unenge waenda kumba kwemunhu anazvo wonotengesegwa ikoko wodzoka wakatakura wega uchiziva zvawatenga. Saka mukadzi uyu tinoziva chose kuti akanotenga, pedzezvo ndokutakura kubva kumusha kusvika UK ndokutanga kufidha murume wake. Mukadzi ndiye akatonoudza nyakutengesa nhema dzaaida kuti dziwedzere. Kuzopiwa izvi ange akumbira. Ndiyo nyaya inotsamwisa murume kusvika aita zvinomusungisa. Isu vanhu vakawanikwa ngatipahwisise apa kuti sei murume asvika pakusava nehanya nomukadzi wake kusvika pakumurova zvakadai.

Nyaya dzomumba dzinoti ukaita yako, ukasakasira kuigadzirisa uchiti nokuti hausiwe une mhosva, uchaona kuti kunopera gore nyaya yako yakurisa zvokuti hauchaigoni wega, wobva wandotsvaka vakadzi vemuraini vasinei newe. Vobva vakutengesera zvigaba zvine zvinhu zvisingadyiwi kwahi enda unobikira murume kuti agokuda. Murume wako haana kumboti haachakudi, asi kuti pakati penyu muri vaviri hamudi kugadzirisa nyaya dzisina kururama. Vanhu dzidzai kuti mukapokana mokasira kugadzirisa nyaya dzenyu modzokera pakuva mai nababa vemusha wenyu.

Dai mukadzi uyu akachenjera aikasira kubvunza munhu akamupa chigaba kuti zvino murume zvaasungwa, chigaba chashanda here kana kwete?  Zvichazoshanda here? Zvakamboshanda here kumwe? Kana wakachenjera uchahwisisa kuti hakuna kwazvinomboshanda nokuti nyama yechiremwaremwa haina kusiyana nedzimwe nyama. Ukaidya wakurungira dovi hazvisiyani neakurungira yembudzi.

Varume
Imiwo varume hwisisai kuti parudzi gwedu mukadzi ndiye anobikira murume mumba. Munhu anohi mubiki, munhu akakosha chose pamusha zvokuti vaya vanobikigwa garai muchiziva kuti munodya zvaanoda kuti mudye. Kuzorova nezvibhakera kurova hako asi mubiki atobika imi matodya. Hapana chichagadzirika ipapo. Murume ngaasakonzera mukadzi wake kufunganya zvokusvika pakamuomera zvokubuda mumba make achinofamba muraini achitaura nhamo dzake dzomurume wake kusvika vaya vame zvigaba vati chibata napapa. 

Murume hwisisa kuti mumaraini okwenyu mune varume vakawanda chose vari kungodyiswa zvinhu zviri muzvigaba nyakudyisa achifunga kuti pane zvazvinoshanda, nyaya yese yabva pakuti iwe murume hauhwisisi nyaya dzemhuri yako. Sabhuku haamiriri kuti munhu wemudunhu rake auye kuzozvitongesa. Anotodaidzwa kudare oenda nyaya yake yotongwa yopera vanhu vodzokera kudzimba dzavo. Saizvozvo samusha akaona nyaya pamusha anokasira kugara pasi nomukadzi wake vogadsirisa nyaya. Kumirira gore rese kuti mukadzi achauya ozondiudza kuti nyaya yapera hazviiti. Wakamirira kudai ndipo paunodyiswa zvemuzvigaba.

Kune zvakawanda zvinodyiswa varume vasingagoni kugadzirisa nyaya mudzimba dzavo. Kune nyama dzemhuka dzisingadyiwi dzakaita sezviremwaremwa nezvidhambakura, chifurira, gwaivhi, koitazve ropa rokumwedzi, kwemukadzi wako, nezvimwe zvinotosemesa. Zvese izvi zvinobva pa DESPERATION yemukadzi panyaya dzausiri kugadzirisa iwe.

Nyakubvunza
Saka ini ndakamurondedzera kuti iwe nomukadzi wako pane zvamusiri kugadzirisa zvinodya moyo wemukadzi wako. Hazviiti uti munhu azviwanira murume wake akanaka agoonekwa okwira ndege achienda Zimbabwe onotaura nezvichembere zvemuraini opiwa chigaba chine nyama yechiremwaremwa chakafa kuda gore rakapera museri, uchisenga ne Bacteria yacho yese iye ari NESI anohwisisa zvigwere, oita chivindhi chokupa murume wake kuti adye. Hazviitiki pasina nyaya inogumbira yaatadza kugadzirisa iye ega.

Ndipo ndakamuudza kuti ukatoramba mukadzi uyu uchatorana noumwezve asi dambudziko rako iroro uchagara unaro ugosvikazve pakupokana nomutsva wacho. Dai wafonera mukadzi wako mugarisane pasi mubvunzane kuti chii chakakanganisika kusvika ada kuti udye chiremwaremwa.

Kuzotaura kuti mukadzi akudyisa chiremwaremwa kutaura nyaya yagara iripo kare. Yokutanga ndeyokuti iwe samusha hausi kutonga mushawako zvine kodzero. Gadzirisa nyaya mukadzi asawana chokunodembera vanhu vemuraini. Nyama yechiremwaremwa haina chainoita pamuviri wako chakaipa zvokuti ungatonetseka nayo, Kuzhe kwekuti kana uri muSavadha anoremekedza mabhuku eBhaibheri anotaura nezvisingadyiwi. Vamwe vese inongori PSYCHOLOGY yokuti mukadzi haachavimbi neni panhema dzandinogaromuudza. Ndiko saimba achikanganiswa musoro nazvo.

Mukadzi wako haadi kukuuraya kana kukupengesa, kana kukutyisa, anongoda rudo chete. Iwe wakamuroora uchimuvimbisa rudo saka mutaridze rudo nyaya igume yakadaro, mese modya nyama yokubhucha.

Remekedza munhu anokubikira mumba kuti akubikira zvakakukodzera.

Udzai vamwe!!!!!!!
Kudyisa murume
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Mushonga wekuti murume akude.
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Kuhurira mari yechikoro na SugarDaddy

Chii chatingabvumirana panyaya yomusikana anohurira mari yechikoro, ana kuti murume mukuru anovata nechana chechikoro kuti abvume kuchibvisira mari yechikoro?

Mubvunzi munhu akura hake uye akadzidza asi achiri musikana akaita nguva yaaivata nomudhara aimubhadharira mari yechikoro. Ikozvino, (28 years later) achiri kutambudzwa nezviitiko zvenguva iyi.

Hwisisaizve kuti zvinoitika kunyika dzakawanda izvi. Kuno ku UK zvakawedzera chose kuvasikana vanoenda kuUniversity mazuvano. Inotova nyaya huru asi kuno hako chihure hachionekwi sechinhu chakanyanyoipa. 
Iwe unofungei nenyaya iyi? 
Wakambozviitawo here iri ngari yokushaya mari?


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Furo jena rinobuda muchitubu pakurhojana.

Kune vakawanda vari kubvunza kuti pakurhojana chii chinoitisa kuti furo jena ribude mumukadzi. Rinoonekwa kana wozvipukuta kana kuti wopukuta chombo chomurume. Pamwezve kana wakavata nomusana murume ari mukati muchikoirana, rikatanga kubuda unohwa richieredza rakananga kumubhedha. Rinoitiswa nei uye sei risingaiti nguva dzese pamunovatana?

Chokutanga ndechokuudza vaya vanotya zvinhu zvavasingahwisisi kuti chitubu chako kana chaita dambudziko unokasira kuziva nokuti panobuda hwema hwakasiyana uye panokwanisa kuvava zvokuti unogarokwenya. Furo jena iri harina hwema hwakaipa asi rinowedzera hwema hwechitubu. Zvinohi kana murume akakukasirira iwe ukada kuti akasirezve kumira chombo kuti akupamhidze, unovhura makumbo womufukidza jira musoro kuti hwema hwese hwechitubu humukasirire kumira chimbo.

Furo iri harina chakaipa pariri. Chokutanga ndechokuti rinoitika kuvanhu vakawanda chose uye hachisi chigwere. Rinoitika kana wamboita nguva zemo rakakwira usina wawavata naye uku uchieredza kubva mukunyorova kwechitubu.

Zvoitazve kuti pakati penguva yokumwedzi paunokandira zai furo iri rinosiyana ruvara gwaro uye kuwanda zvokuti kana uri munhu anogarovata nomurume uye murume wako achikuitisawo zemo guru, uchaona kuti kuwanda kwefuro iri kunosiyana panguva yemazuva epakati pokuenda kumwedzi.

Furo kuwanda kwezemo chete. bvisanai zemo pasina anotya nazvo. Vamwe vanowanza furo vamwe havaiti furo, vamwe vanoita dzimwe nguva voshaya dzimwe nguva. Usatambudzika nazvo. Tarisa nguva yomwedzi ugoona kana zvichichinja pakufamba kwemwedzi. Tarisazve kuti wange une zemo rakadii musi uyu uchikombeya nemamwe mazuva.

Asi hwema hwechitubu hwukachinja zvokuti unohwa kuti hwashata, ndiyo nguva chete yokunoona murapi nokuti unenge wava noutachiona harisi zemo.

Varumewo ukaona paya uri mukati memukadzi wako muchinakirana, ukaona ari kubuda furo jena rakaita seCREAM, ziva kuti mai Chimwana vane zemo guru nhasi saka chimbovanonokerawo vawane nguva yokubva zemo. Ukuwo wopota uchishandisa maoko panoda kukwizirigwa kuti vakasire kuwana mukana wekuguta.

Murume ndiwe unototanga kuona furo iri nokuti kuti mukadzi atarise pari kukoigwa nechombo zvinonetsa. Iwe murume ndiwe unoona chombo chese chazara furo mukadzi asati azviona fungwa iri pakunakira murume. Toti mukadzi akafongora iwe murume uri kupinda nokumashure, unokwanisa kuona pari kupinda chombo.  Totizve mukadzi avete nomusana akapakachira makumbo pamafudzi amurume, iwe murume unoonazve pari kupinda chombo. Pane maitire akawanda anobvumidza murume kuona chombo chichipinda zvokuti anoona furo richizara pachombo.

Kana wazviona usavhunduka, hapana chakaipa Izemo chete. Asizve kana mukadzi waunaye riri hure raunotoziva kuti anogarokwigwa nevamwe varume, chibva wazivawo kuti anokwanisazve kunge ane zvigwere zvauri kutokasva nechombo chako chero ane furo chero asina. Kana ari wako wemumba usavhunduka.  Chingofunga yokugutsa umwe wako chete.

Furo kana kunyanyonyorova hachisi chigwere. Izemo. Zemo mushonga waro murume ane nguva yokuribvisa. Woitawo kana maminitsi gumi uchikoira mukadzi wako achihwawo pane moyo, wozodiridzira hako mukadzi aguta. Dai varume muchinyatsohwisisa kuti nguva yokukoigwa nomurume inguva yakaita sei dai muchikasira kudzidza kutora nguva muchiita basa iri. Mukadzi anogaroguta kana pamuromo chaipo haana. Hauhwi achikomburena pane zvakawanda.

Udzai vamwe!!!!!

Kuroora mukadzi ane mimba youmwe murume

Nyaya iyi ndeyevarume zvikuru. Tomboti musikana wako wepamoyo aita mimba iwe uchiziva kuti haisi yako asi wobva waramba uchida kumuroora uku uchiziva kuti munhu amuitisa mimba yacho haamudi zvachose. Inofamba sei nyaya iyi pamaonere evarume nemaonere emukadzi wacho anowanikwa pakadai.

Zvinoita here kuti mukadzi uyu akwanise kukudza murume kana varoorana? Mubvunzo uyu wabvunzwa nomusikana ari pakadai. Mukomana wake anomuda akadaro kwahi mwana ndinorera.

Toda kuongorora mafungire emurume uyu:
Ngatitange tabvumirana kuti mudzimba umu mune vana vakawanda chose vasiri vevarume vana samusha vacho. Umwe mwana ndewekutanga umwe ndewepakati zvichienda zvakadaro. Mazuvano nokufambafamba kwevanhu mese mukadzi nomurume munosangana nevamwe vanhu motaudzana kusvika pamuedzo. Murume akahura pasina kondhomu anokwanisa kumitisa umwe musikana kana kupa mukadzi wemunhu mimba. Mukadzi wemunhu anodzokera kumba kwake ovatazve nomurume wake mimba iya yechikomba yatobata kare. Mrume wemumba anongofunga kuti mwana ndewake orera pasina dambudziko.

Pano hatisi kutaura nyaya yakadai. Tinoda kutaura neyemurume anoda kuroora musikana waanotoziva kuti ane mimba youmwe murume uye zvinoita here kuti audze hama dzake kuti mimba ine musikana haisi yake?

Ukaongorira unoona kuti kuvarume vakawanda nyaya yokuvata nomukadzi chero zvake ani, haizezesi.  Ndizvo muchiona mahure achitoita mari kuchaja varume kuti vauye kuzotenga zvigwere. Ukaterera varume vachitaurirana unohwa vachiti "hure riya rinonaka zvokuti" woshaya kuti sei uchivata naro iwe uchitoziva kuti ihure? Varume vanoita sokuti vanofungigwa nechombo nguva zhinji. Kana chamira fungwa mumusoro haachina kusvika chombo chapedza shungu dzacho ndipo paanotanga kumhanyamhanya kundotsvaka mushonga wesiki. Zviri kwese izvi. Handi varume vedu chete. Kwahi Zuma wakavata nomukadzi ane HIV pasina condhomu. Kwahi aifunga kuti akakasira kugeza nemvura inopisa ustachiona hunopera. Ndiwo mafungure evarume kana chombo chamira.

Saka hazvitishamisi kuhwa kuti murume anosangana nomusikana ane mimba agotovata naye kusvika anakigwa zvokutofunga kuti anoda kumuroora. Pamwezve zvinoitika kuti murume ane musikana wake waanoda chose chose asi musikana uya ane vakomana vaviri. Akamitiswa noumwe mukomana, akarambwa, anokwanisa kuchienda kune uya umwe osvikogamuchigwa zvese nemimba yake iyoyo. Kuzoda kuroora uku kuitira kuti pasawana anofungira kuti mimba haisi yemukomana uyu.

Kazhinji vari vaviri vanovanza nyaya yemimba iyi kumhuri dzavo kuti dzisafungira kuti mimba haisi yemurume ada kuroora. Kazhinjizve mukadzi haaudzi mukomana wake kuti mimba haisi yake  asi anotozama kuvata naye kakawanda kuti afunge kuti mimba ndeyake. Hino uyu abvunza mubvunzo akabudira mukamana pachena kuti ane mimba uye mimba ndeyeumwe asingamudi. Mukomana ndokubva amuudza kuti anomuda akadaro nemimba yake. Mwana anorera sewake. Ndipo pasiyana zvinosiitika nezvaitika. Mrume anoti anoda mukadzi uyu sezvaari izvozvo.

Ukatarisazve unona kuti nyaya iyi haina kusiyana nomurume anoroora mvana orera mubvandiripo sewake. Changosiyana izera remwana uye kuti uyu anozozvagwa mumba memurume uy obva aita sewake kune vasingazivi nyaya. Saka zvinotova nani nokuti hama hadzigaroona mubvandiripo seasiri wavo. Nerimwe divi tinotoona sokuti murume uyu ane dambudziko shoma kune rouyu aroora mvana.


Mafungire ehama dzomurume uyu kana dzaziva kuti mimba ndeyoumwe
Mhuri dzakawanda hadzidi kurera mwana asiri wavo. Vanotoungana pamurume uyu kumuudza kuti mafungire ake awa ari kubva pakudyiswa nomukadzi ane mimba uyu. Unnona chero hazvanzi yemurume uyu inenge iri mvana inotohurawo nevamwe varume, ichitomira mira kutsika madziro kudzivisa hazvanzi kuroora musikana ane mimba uyu. Ukada kubvunzisisa kuti chaanomurambidzira chii chaicho unoona kuti ari kungofunga kuti dai hazvanzi yangu yaroora musikana mhandara kana kuti atisingazivi kuti imhandara here kana kwete. Mafungire evanhu vemhuri pamwe haanzwisisiki asi kungoti pane zvinhu zviri mufungwa dzedu zvatinofunga kuti zvakaipa zvisingafaniri kuitwa nehama dzedu pasina nyaya dzakaita sokudyiswa. Hama dzinokutenderedza musoro ukasahwisisa zvaunoda kuita.

Kune varume vanoda musikana zvokuti chero akaudzwa chimwe chinhu chakamboitwa nomusikana uyu chakaipa haanei nazvo anomuda akadaro. Kuroora munhu ane mimba chinhu chikuru chose mumhuri zvokuti ukavaudza usati waroora vanombozama kukudzivisa.

Kana murume uyu ari kure nehama anongofonegwa achipopotegwa asi hapana zvavanokwanisa kuita. Tinozviona kune vanogara kune dzimwe nyika. Unoona mukomana akasvika chose uye ane runako zvokuti vasikana vakawanda vanotomuda asi havana mukana wekumunyenga. Unoona achinoroorana nomukadzi wamusingafungiri kuti akakodzera. Muchembere, mvana, ane vana nevarume vakawanda, asina kudzidza saiye. Imi vaoni ndimi mune dambudziko nazvo iye haana.

Ruzhinji kana mukada kurambidza munhu kuroora umwe munhu ndipo paanotowedzera kumda zvokuti kuvarambanisa zvinonetsa. Chinongozobudapo ndechokuti dziya hama dzinotaurisa dzichavengwa nomurume uyu nomukadzi wake nokuti vanoona sokuti hama dzinovenga mukadzi uyu. Kana muchida kurambanisa vanhu musatanga nokutaridza kuti hama yenyu haigoni kusarudza zvakanaka. Challenge yokusarudza haina anoigamuchira zvakanaka.


Mafungire emukadzi
Kana musikana akaita mimba pasina mukomana anoigamuchira, panomboita nguva yokutya upenyu huchauya zvokuti mafungire ake anosiyana nezvaange ari asina mimba. Mukadzi kana asina mimba achingoda hake kuwanikwa anenge ane rudo kana SECURITY mufungwa.

Uyu ane mimba youmwe mafungire ake akati siyane neevamwe. Ane EMERGENCY inoonekwa nemhuri mbiri dzese saka inoda kugadziriswa nokukasira. Iye haakwanisi kuigadzirisa nokuti simba riri kumurume. Nyaya yese iri kumurume nemafungire ake. Zvinokwanisika kuti murume anotaura kuti anoda mukadzi, kopera awa imwe chete ochinja mafungire. Kusvika ava mumba uye vagarisana, mukadzi uyu haazivi paamire. Zvinhu zvinokwanisa kukasira kuipa.

Mafungire ehama dzomukadzi
Hama dzomukadzi kana dzikapiwa mukana dzinoda kunotauririna nomukomana uyo muridzi wemimba. Izvi zvokuti mwana wavo ane mimba asi anoda umwe murume zvinoshungurudza vabereki nehama nokuti zvinonetsa kuhwisisa. Munhu kana aita mimba kazhinji anonetsana nomurume amupa mimba yacho, kwete nevamwe varume. Zvinokwanisika kuti hama dzomukadzi dzitange kupopotera murume ari kuda kuroora uyu kuti ngaasiyane nomwana wavo. Ukuwo vachaedza kundotaura nanyamimba kuti aroore kana kubvisa dhemeji.

Inyaya inonetsa vakawanda kuihwisisa.

Maonere evanhu vemuraini.
Vanhu vemuraini vanongodawo havo nyaya dzinonakidza kutaura vachinyebera kudemba pazviri kuti azviitirei asi hapana kubatsira kwavanokwanisa kuita. Kana vakazoona kuti munhu ada mukadzi wake, vanongopedzisira vamugamuchira akadaro. Vanhu vemuraini vane nhamo dzavo mudzimba dzavo. Kana vasina kutoudzwa nehama dzouyu ada mukadzi ane mimba havatombofungi nazvo. Vanongouyawo kumuchato vopururudza vodya mabiko vodzokera kumba kwavo.

Rugare mumba: 
Pamusha wakadai panokwanisa kuita rugare here, uye pane nyaya dzinotaugwa here kana matukana paya pamunombosvotesana. Ruzhinji kana uchida kuziva mafungire emunhu, terera kutaura kwake kana akatsamwa. Ndipo paunoziva chaizvo chaizvo zvaanokufungira. Ukaona magarisana kwekanguva, manyawi ekuti muchangoroorana apera mukadzi iyeyu akakanganisa chimwe chinhu kana kuti akada kukomburena pane zvaitwa nomurume, murume anokwanisa kumuudza mashoko akadzika chose pamusoro peupenyu hwake.

Hino mukadzi uyu akashaya moyo murefu pamurume wake nomutauro wake, nyaya yavo inokwanisa kushata. Murume akuda pazviito zvako zvakaipa anoona sokuti anokodzera kuregeregwa kupfuura vamwe varume pazviito zvakaipa. Ichi chiri chokwadiwo. Usaita tsika yokukangamwa kuti murume ataridza rudo gwakapfuura vakawanda. Iwewo chiziva kuti une chikwereti chake chisingarapiki. Kana zvaada unazvo mupe afare. Akatanga kupopota iwe chikumbira regerero nyaya ipere musati matukana. Zviito zvake zvinoratidza mafungire ake. Kana usina chokwadi nazvo, bvunza kana akagutauye akarivara. Chimwezve garomuudza kuti unomuda uye sei uchimuda asi usamuyechidza nyay yokugamuchira mimba yako kwake nguva dzese.

Saka topa musikana uyu ADVICE yokuti kudii panyaya yake?
Ari kubvunza kuti zvinoita here kuti aroorane nomurume uyu ari kumuda vagogara zvakanaka kusvika vachembedzana?  



Chimbotongaiwo tihwe vaverengi.

Murume/Mukadzi ahura iwe woramba unaye

Ngationgorore nyaya iyi yokuti muri vaviri mumba, poita wechitatu, iwe wogarapo, kana uri muadzi kana uri murume, fungwa yako inenge ichiti kudii pazviri. Une rudo nomunhu asingakudi here kana kuti uri munhu asina njere. Ngatitarisei nyaya dzakadai kuti dzinoitiswa nei pamusha.

Kuhura kwemurume:
Murume wepamba munhu ane musengwa wemusha pazvinhu zvakawanda chose zvinoti mari youkuriritira mhuri uye kuronga upenyu hwevana uye kuti hama dzenyu dziya dzinongoerekana dzasvika dzafidhiwauye kupiwa mari yebhazi. Kana murume wemusha akasahwisisa mutoro wake pamusha wake musha haumiri zvakanaka.

Kuhura kwemurume kune zvikonzero zvatinohwa zvakawanda zvokuti ukagara pasi nomurume wako ukamubvunza kuti chii chingaitisa samusha kuti ahure, unohwa achikuudza zvaanofungira kuti ndizvo asi maudzire aanokuita ndeekukuyambira kuti uzive zvingamuhurisa iye. Vakawanda vanoda kuti iwe mukadzi uhwisise kuti ukamurambira mumba anonotsvaka kumwe asi asina rudo nouya waatsvaka. Varume vanhu vanokwanisa kungoda umwe munhu wekuvata naye asi rudo pasina. Uya wavatwa naye kazhinji haadi kungobvumawo pasina chaanowana pazviri. Munhukadzi anofarira kuhura nomurume akaroora anozviona ari munhu akanaka kupfuura mukadzi wemurume uya. Ukuwo anoda kugaropiwa mari pakuvatwa naye kwake kureva kuti ihure risingadi kuhi ihure. Mari iya yaanopiwa anopiwa zviri zvimwe zvinhu.

Ukatarisa magarire amaSimoro hausi unoona kuti mari yavanopiwa inouya yakatonanga chimwe chinhu kuitira kuti asafunga kuti zvaari kuita kuhura. Anopiwa mari ohi ndeyekubhadhara magetsi, mvura, kana rhendi. Haaudzwi kuti iyi imari yekukurhoja kwandakaita madeko sezvinoitwa hure rePROFESSIONAL. Asi pese ipapa murume anenge achitoziva kuti chii chaari kupira munhu mari uye kuti pane vamwe varumewo vari kumupa mari yechihure chake navo.

Ukatarisazve varume vanoshanda vanohura unoona kuti vakawanda havadi kubvuma kuti ndivo vane dambudziko. Unohwa murume mukuru achibheja kuti musikana waanoshanda naye ndiye anomukwezva kuti ahure naye. Iye oda kuti isu vatereri venyaya yake tibvume kuti iye haana mhosva. Musikana uya ndiye ane mhosva. Kwahi ingari yokuti tinoshanda tese muhofisi saka hapana zvandingaita.

Wotarisazve varume vonokwikwidzana kuvata nemvana yomuraini. Havadi kuti tizive kuti ndivo vane mhosva. Kwahi mvana ndiyo yanditi uya umwe tii ndokubva ndapinda mumba mayo ndokuzohi uya ukwire.

Koitazve varume zvanokuudza kuti vakhura nokuda kwekuti mukadzi wake ange asipo ari kumusha iye ndokushaya wekutamba naye. Kwahi ndakangomukumbirawo kuti azobika musi iwoyo chete iye ndokubika, ndokudya ndokutanga kuona TV pane kudzokera kumba kwake. Takazopedza kuona TV mabhazi kusisina ndikati chirega uzoenda mangwana. Kuhi ndiye akakoka muhure bodo haadi.

Ukatarisazve murume anoroora mukadzi wechipiri pachivande iwe mukadzi wake wongozoerekana pamba pako pasvika umwe mukadzi anoti aroogwa nomurume wako, unoona kuti iye murume haadi kubvuma kuti ane mhosva. Umwe watakanoona panyaya yakadai aitotibvunza kuti tinofunga kuti aikwanisa kuita sei musikana wake aita mimba, sokuti mimba yacho musikana akangoerekana atoita pasina zvaitwa kuti aite mimba yacho. Mimba inoitiswa nokupiwa urume saka iwe murume ukavata nomukadzi wemusango usina kupfeka kondhomu zvinoreva kuti uri kuda kumupa urume, saka achatoita mimba.

Panyaya dzese idzi tinoona kuti murume wako rudo newe haana. Munhu anokuonawo semuranda wake anogarira kuchengeta musha asi pasina chake pamusha apa. Mubvunzo wedu pano ndewekuti iwe kana wahwisisa zvaitwa nomurume wako, uye kuti hazvigadziriki chii chaunogarira pakadai? Ndiwo mubvunzo watichazama kupindura. Ngatimbotarisawo kuhura kwemukadzi.


Kuhura kwemukadzi

Mai vemba munhuwo ane basa rakawanda pazvinhu zvakawanda. Mazuvano mukadzi anofanirawo kunge achishanda kuti mese muise mari pamwe chete muriritire mhuri yenyu. Vana mai vemba kuhura kwavo kwakati siyanei nokuhura kwavarume. Kana mukadzi afunga kuhura kazhinji anohura akaviga chihure chake zvokuti murume wake haatombozivi kuti ari kuhura. Kunozotiwo uya murume waari kuhura naye ndiye anoudza shamwari dzake zvobuda pachena. Pamwe chikomba chiya chinoitira mukadzi uyu zvachinosiitira mamwe mahure, kumutengera zvinhu, iye obva aenda nazvo kumba. Pakadai nyaya yozobuda.

Vakadzi kuhura kwavo kazhinji ndekwekutsvaka rudo kana kumba kusina rudo. Vakadzi vakawabda vane LOYALTY kuvarume vavo asi rudo haguna shasha. Kana mukadzi akasapiwa rudo zvinonetsa kusahura. Pakuhura kwacho murume wake akazotanga kumupa rudo kuhura kunoderera. Ndiwo masikigwe evakadzi uye ndiyo siyano yavo nevarume. Hatisi kuti hakuna mukadzi wemumba anongotanga kuhura zvichibva paruchiva, asi tiri kuti vakawanda havazviiti.

Hino toti mukadzi wako ahura, uye iwe murume wazvibata kuti ahura, chiichinoitisa kuti ude kugara naye? Ndiwo mubvunzo wedu pano?

Mubvunzo wedu kuvarume nevakadzi
Toda kumbohwawo kubva kune vakambozviitigwa. Kuti umwe wako ahura, iwe wazviziva, pamwe atouya noumwe mukadzi pamusha wako, iwe wozvigamuchira kusvika pakuti muupenyu hwenyu murume wenyu anoti nhasi avata nouyu, mangwana ovata nouyu. iwe uchitomuvhurira makumbo uchiziva kuti madeko ange ari pakati pemakumbo amainini.  Unenge uri munhu akjaita sei mufungwa dzako?

Ukuwo toti mukadzi wako aimbohura nanhingi waunoziva. Iwe unoziva kuchemerera kunoita mukadzi wako pakuvatana kwenyu, unoziva kuti ndizvo zvaaiita nechikomba chake, uye aiuya kumba ambopiwa urume hechikomba ichi, asi iwe haunei nazvo zvese izvi unogamuchira mukadzi wako kana ati anoda kudzoka. Unenge uri munhu akaita sei mufungwa dzako?

Tichiongorora tinoona kuti vashomanana vanohurigwa vagoshaya hanya nazvo. Vanowanzoshaya hanya vanhu vasina njere, vakaita sevakadzi vemaPositori vaya nanongoungana pamurume umwe chete vasingahwisisi kuti murume uyu ihure. Kana munhu ane njere kazhinji anogumbuka nokuhurigwa nomurume/mukadzi wake zvokuti kuti azokwanisa kugara, pane chimwe chinhu chinomuita agare chaanoremekedza kupfuura kuipa kwekuhurigwa.  Zvimwe zvezvinhu izvi ndeizvi.

Kugarira muchato

Kune vamwe, zvikuru vanhukadzi vanoremekedza muchato zvokuti chero murume akaita chihure zvakadii, mukadzi anogarapo chete nokuda kwekuti akabvuma kuchata nomurume uyu. Kuhi MRS choita chinhu chikuru. Kubvuma kuti muchato wapera zvinogozha chose. Ukatarisa mumaraini unoona vakadzi vakawanda vanohurigwa uku vachimborohwa nokutukwa nokuitigwa zvinhu zvisiri pamurairo asi havasiyi varume vavo chero zvodii. Pamwe anombotsamwa oinda kumusha kwake asi hapaiti nguva asina kufunga murume wake, obva adzoka.

Varumewo unoona murume anonyatsoziva kuti mukadzi wake ari kuhura. Vanhu vemuraini vachitoudzana kuti akadyiswa, asi iye haanei nazvo anongoda mukadzi wake. Zvinomuremera kugura muchato. Vamwewo varume unoona kuti kana ambopopota akadzinga mukadzi, kunopera vhiki obva atevera ondokumbira kuti mukadzi adzoke. Adzoka anoramba achingohura murume achingonetseka nazvo asi kwasviba anovata naye uye anogara naye.

Pane umwe hama yedu ane mukadzi akabva pamba vatukana, akanogara mwedzi yakati kuti murume ndokutevera ndokuwana mukadzi ane mimba ndokunodzoka naye. Izvozvi vane vana vatatu asi mukadzi anoudza murume kuti HAUZVARI uye vana ava havasi vake, asi vese vanongodanana vachigara vese.

Kugarira vana

Koitazve vame varume nevakadzi vanoti vanogarira vana vavo kuti vakure vane vabereki vavo vese. Ukataura nevanhu vane fungwa dzakadai unohwisisa kuti munhu asi rudo zvachose nomunhu waanogara naye asi aona kuti upenyu hwevana vake hwakakosha zvokuti zviri nani azvirerere vana vake muridzi pane kuti asiye murume/mukadzi vana vozotsvakigwa umwe mubereki. Nyaya yevana iyi inonetsa kuhwisisa kana usina vana.

Ini kazhinji ndikabvunzwa kuti nyaya yokuroorana yakamira sei ndinoudza musikana kuti kana usingashandi usafunga zvokuwanikwa. Mazuvano kana usina mari yako wega iwe kana kuti usina kudzidza usazviwedzera nhamo nokuda kuwanikwa nokuti varume inhunzvatunzva. Akapa musikana akanaka LIFT anotomboda kuvata naye iwe uri kumba kwacho kwaari kuuya, ipapo iwe hauna kuguta zvinhu.

Nyaya yokugarira vana inyaya hayo asi kana waida chirega kuti vana vazive kuti haudanani namai/baba vavo. Wangogarira vana chete. Vana vanokuona uchindovata nouya mubereki wausingadi vobva vakura vachifunga kuti kuvata nomunhu wausingadi zvinokwanisika. Zvadaro hapana STABILITY yawapa vana. Kana usingadi murume/mukadzi, chingoita sokuti unomuda kana vana varipo.

Kugarira ufumi hwako

Kune vamwezve vanoti Ndakaroorana nomunhu uyu asina fuma yese yava pano iyi saka ndeyangu uye pano handibvi. Munhu otogarapo asi pava noumwe mukadzi mutsva. Pane umwe akaendesa murume kuchikoro achishanda sedhongi vachizama kugadzira musha wavo. Murume ndokupedza kudzidza ndokuwana basa riri pamusoro, pedzezvo ndokumitisa umwe musikana. Uya mukadzi sare vavava haachin chake. Obva ati pano handibvi nokuti kudzidza kwake murume uyu ndini. Asizve chaunogarirapo chaicho chii? Kana INVESTMENT yako yaparara chitoro chako chisina zvinotengeswa, ukagaramo mudangwaza iroro chii chauchawanapo?

Kusava nezvaunogona kuita wega

Koitazve vamwe vanoongorora nyaya yavo vohwisisa kuti akasiyana nenhubu iyi haawani upenyu hwakanaka nokuti iye haashandi uye haana mukana wekushandawo chiwana mari, Vekumhuri yake Havana chavangamubatsira nacho. Pakadai panonetsa nokuti munhu anoperegwa nezvaangaita pakukanganisa kweumwe wake. 

UDZAI VAMWE!!!!!!
Toda kuhwisisa kuti vanhu vakadai vanoitiswa kudai nei?  VaNOKWANISA KUTIJEKESERA JEKESERAI TIHWE.

Misha miviri, kumusha nokudhorobha

Kuroorana nemurume ane misha miviri, wekumusha newekudhorobha kune nyaya dzakawanda dzinoda kuti tese tidzihwisise kuitira kuti tisazoshupikana nadzo mberi uko. Ndichawana nguva yokumbodziongorora kuti vanowedzera vagozowedzerawo havo tambotaura.  Tinoda kuhwisisa kuti zvinoita here kuti umwe wenyu apedze nguva achirima kumusha umwe achishanda kudhorobha pagoshaya anohurira umwe pakati penyu.

Toti maroorana muchiri vanhu vechidiki vane miviri inodziya inoda kugaro kwizirana. Poitika kuti mune misha miviri. Kumusha kune minda inoda kurimwa nokuchengetwa, kudhorobha kune basa remurume rinodawo kushandwa kuti mari iuye mumba. Powanikwazve kuti mune mombe nezvimwe zvipfuwo zvisingakwanisi kusara zvega pamusha. Kana mwundhi ega achishaukadzi asingashandi kazhinji anohi chienda unochengeta musha, murume osara mutanda.

Vanhu vakadai vanosangana kupera kwemwedzi murume atambira ouya kumusha opedza weekend yese aripo odzokera kubasa vomirirazve kupera kwemwedzi. Ngationgorore nyaya iyi takasvinura maziso kwete kuda kunyeberana. Nyaya dzokuvatana idzi dzinonetsa kuti kana muviri ozvida fungwa inonetsa kuibvisa pazviri saka unongogarozvifunga kusvika wazviita. Kana murume achishanda paguta riri pedo, mukadzi anokwanisa kungokwira bhazi rinoita kana 5 Dollars ondovata kumurume mangwana odzoka hake kumusha. Mari iripo anokwanisa kuuya vhiki imwe neimwe. Hino kana murume achishanda kuHarare musha wenyu uri Zaka zvinonetsa kuti musangane. Mari yachozve inonetsa kuiwana.

Pakadai vakawanda vanongogara kwakasiyana voonana katatu pagore. Vanhu vakadai zvinonetsa kuti vasahurirana. Ndakambosangana noumwe watinoti muzukuru aishanda basa romugadheni kuHarare. Pakutaudzana ndakamubvunza kuti mhuri yakadii, zvikahi ndava nemazuva ndisina kuvaona asi tinotumirana tsamba nebhazi kubva ku Morgenster. Vange vatova votoda kusvika gore vasina kuonana. Ndakabvunzurudza ndikapedzisira ndangomupa mari yokuti andoona mukadzi nevana vake  yaaishaya yebhazi USD 18, ndokuzomutora nemota ndokunomusiya Masvingo isu todzokera kwedu. Izvi hazvina zvazvakabatsira nokuti akangonovaona kamwe chete. Ko mberi uko zvozodii? Hapana batsiro yatakapa ine musoro.

Munokwanisa kuita henyu misha miviri mugogara muchionana henyu kana mari iripo. Kana pasina idambudziko guru nokuti hazvigoneki. Ini sokuona kwangu kana murume achishanda basa rine mari isingakwani zvokuonana kakawanda (kaviri pamwedzi kana kupfuura) zviri nani vese vanogara kumusha vorima vachitengesa vachiwana mari yeshuga nesipo uku vachiriritira mhuri yavo pamwe chete. Kugara makasiyana kune zviedzo zvakawandisa zvinokwanisa kukuurayai mese.

Imwe nyaya inonetsa ndeyokuti kana munhu akatanga kuhura anokwanisa kumboita zvemakondhomu kwekanguva asi anozoti ajairana newaari kuhura naye vese vongozoisana vasina kondhomu. Pakadai panonetsa panyaya mbiri dzokuti chigwere uye mimba. Panokwanisazve kuita nyaya yerudo, yokuti uya wauri kuhura naye akatanga kukuda zvinokanganisa muchato wako. Iwewo ukatanga kumuda nokuti ndiye anogara pedo newe anoti ukamuti uya kumba anouya, zvinoita kuti usazoda wawakaroorana naye. Tinoona vakawanda vanopedzisira vodanana nomunhu waari kuvata naye kupfuura waakaroorana naya iri nyaya yokuti waakaroorana naye haapo panguva yokuvata saka COMFORT yese iri kubva kuhurekadzi/hurerume  riya. Miyedzo yabva pakugara makapatsana apa.

Murume ane mukadzi ari kumusha iye ari kutawundhi anoitamba sei nyaya yekuvata ega? Mukadziwo ane murume ari kutawundhi iye ari kumusha anoswera achishanda mumunda zuva richipisa kwasviba anozvibikira sadza odya ovata. Kupisa kwezuva kuya kunoitisa zemo asi apa haana wekuvata naye. Vanhu munoda kuti aite sei ega? Vanhu vaviri ava vese vane nyaya inonetsa kugadzirisa. Inongoda kuti vagare pamusha umwe chete. Zemo ukatotanga kutaurirana newaunoda kuti aripedze pafoni rinotowedzera nokuti unowedzera kumufunga.

Saka todii kana zvisingaiti kusiya musha wega uchienda kudhorobha kune murume. Zviri nani kuwana hama inozogara pamusha wenyu ichirima moitawo kaPROJECT kenyu kokutengesa zvirimwa zviya mogovana nehama iya mari. Mazuvano okuti kana madomasi chaiwo anotengeseka munhu akatowana 10 per day nazvo, itaiwo shungu muwane zvokuita. Monorima mese kana kuti mogara mutawundhi mese kuti muchembedzani muri vapenyu mumuchato wenyu.

Tinoziva kuti varume vemunyika yedu havaremekedzi vakadzi vavo asi nyaya iyi haisi yeremekedzo. Ndeyerufu noupenyu zvinobva pamagarire enyu. Vanazve vanofanira kukura vachikuonai mese baba nami kwete kuti baba vanoonekwa kamwe pamwedzi. Ugoti chauri kuzvarisira mukadzi wako vana chii?

Kugara takati uyu uko uyu uko zvakabva pavarungu vaitirambidza kugara nevarume vedu. Vaivaka dzimba dzainzi majaradha dzaingoti ziimba rimwe chete rakareba richienda uko, umwe noumwe mushandi opiwa ROOM yake imwe chete isingakwani mhuri. Kana woda mhuri wonoroora kumusha wosiya mukadzi wako ikoko. Hino mazuvano hatingagari saizvozvo. Tava pane imwe nguva ine kuhwisisa.

Kana zvazonyanyonetsa mukadzi ngaatsvakewo basa chero basa haro raawana kuti muwane mari yokubhadhara mushandi kumusha imi muchigara mese kunoshanda murume.


Ane zvaanofunga pazviri ngaafanonyora tihwe.

UDZAI Vamwe!!!

Chii Chinohi Rudo?

Mubvunzo uyu unobvunzwa nevakawanda chose zvikuru mazuvano, iri ngari yokuti mumhuri dzakawanda vana vava kukura vasingahwisisi kuti rudo chii nokuti ivo Havana kumboona rudo mumhuri dzavo. Ukaterera vanhu vachizama kutsanangura kuti rudo chii, uchahwisisa kuti rudo chinhu chinonetsa kutsanangura. Zvakafanana nokuti ukabvunza munhu agara muHarare kweguva yakareba kuti anokwanisa here kutsanangura kuti Harare chii chacho, anokwanisa kupedza zuva rese achitsanangura asi agosiyana noumwezve agaramo makore amwe chetewo. Kana chinhu chiri chinhu chakakosha serudo, hazvikwanisiki kuchitsanangura zvokuti vese vatereri vasare vasina mibvunzo. Chikuru ndechokungohwisisa kuti Rudo guriko muvanhu zvakangofanana nokuti Harare iriko.

Kuti tisapedza mwedzi wese tichizama kutaura nyaya iyi pano ndongoti RUDO kuhwa fungwa yako nomuviri wako zvichihwa zvakarerekera kukumbana noumwe munhu kuti muve pamwe chete nguva dzese.  Kana tichitarisa nyaya yerudo tinoona kuti vanhu kare vakaongorora vakaona kuti rudo chinhu chinoti chero munhu ane njere neasina njere vanoita zvakafanana kana vane rudo. Izvi zvakaitisa kuti vafunge kuti rudo hagusi mufungwa chete. Tikatarisazve mabhuku akanyogwa kare akaita seBhaibheri, tinoona kuti vanyori vaiona kuti rudo gunobata muviri wese nezviito zvako zvese.

Luke 10:27
'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'

Deuteronomy 6:5
Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.

Tinoona kuti pane zvaunoshandisa parudo zvinoti

• ·         moyo,
• ·         unhu
• ·         simba
• ·         fungwa

Moyo: Tinohwa vane rudo vachikasira kutaurira wavanoda wacho kuti ari pamoyo pavo nguva dzese. Isu tinoziva hedu kuti mumoyo mune ropa chete asi tozivazve kuti moyo ndichochinhu chinoti ukachikuvadza muridzi anobva afa. Moyo wemunhu uri panoda kuita pakati pemuviri. Kana uchiti unoda munhu nomoyo wese zvinoreva kuti munhu uyu ndiye ari pakati pemuviri wako, nezvese zvinoitwa nomuviri wako zvakarerekera pane zvinodiwa nomunhu waunoda.

Unhu; kuhi uri munhu hunge une rudo gwekupa vamwe vanhu. Mubhaibhiri chinhu chinohi SOUL kuva munhu mupenyu anofema ane muviri unoshanda  (LIVING SOUL). Kana wafa hauchisiri munhu ane unhu. Pano hatisi kureva UNHU sokuti munhu uyu ane unhu (This person is well behaved) Tinoreva unhu hwekuti uri munhu. Iko kuva munhu kwako ikoko ndiko kunohi ukushandise kuda vamwe vanhu.

Simba: Vanhu vese vane samba rokuita chimwe chinhu. Zvinohi shandisa samba rako pakuda umwe munhu. Rudo gwako ngaguve nesimba zvinoreva kuti gunoonekwa zviito zvago. Rudo hachisi chinhu chaungaita chigova chakavanda iwe usingachizivi. Kana une rudo gunoita samba pauri rokukukurudzira kuita zvinhu zvawange usingafungiri kuita.

Fungwa: Fungwa dzako dzese dzinozara rudo chete. Unokwanisa kutorota rudo gwako nomunhu waunoda. Unokwanisa kuti uri kumba, kubasa, kochikoro mubhazi, kana pese paunoita nguva isina zvauri kushanda, fungwa yako inozara rudo gwemunhu waunoda. Hapana zvimwe zvakawanda zvaunokwanisa kufunga zvisinei norudo nomunhu waunoda. Unokwanisa kuti uchida mukomana unokwanisa kurota masikati chaiwo zvokuti unokwanisa kugwadziwa moyo nokuti wava nenguva usina kuona mdiwa wako kana kuhwa ihwi rake muzheve yako.

Tichibatanidza zvinhu zvina izvi tinoona kuti ndizvo zvakavaka muviri wako wese kuti uzohi uri munhu.  Saka apa zviri kuhi zvese zvinodiwa pakuva norudo.

Kusiyana kwerudo:

Kune vanofunga kuti marudzi erudo akasiyana. Kunoti rudo

Gwemukadzi nomurume: gunohi gunofanira kuvapo kusvika vafa. Hagufaniri kuperera pazhira muupenyu hwavo.

Gwemukomana nomusikana: gunoti vanokwanisa kurambana vondonyengana nevamwevo, vovadazve, kusvika vawana wekuroorana naye.

Gwemwana nomubereki: Mwana anoda mubereki wake zvakadzika kusvika azowanawo umwe munhu wekudanana naye obva adanana naye zvakati siyaneyi nezvaaita mubereki.

Gwemubereki kumwana: Haguperi kusvika mubereki afa. Hazvinei kuti mwana aitei, mubereki wake anopopota hake asi anongoda mwana wake. Vabereki vakawanda vanoshaya hope kana mwana ari padambudziko, iri ngari yorudo.

Ini kuona kwangu Rudo gumwe chete zvokuti kana uchida munhu unomuda zvakafanana  zvine zvinhu zvina izvo zvatataura kare. Chinongozosiyana pakufambisa rudo gwenyu kuchengeta mitemo youpenyu hwevanhu. Imwe yemitemo iyi inochengetedza upenyu hwedu tese.

Sokuti mutemo wekuti usavata nomwana wako kana mubereki wako. Mutemo uyu mudiki pane RUDO. Unoda mubereki wako chose asi kudanana kwenyu kunotevera mutemo zvkuti haumbofungi kuvata nababa kana mai vako. Rudo guri pamusoro pezvokuvatana.

Poitazve mitemo youpenyu hwako nehama dzako dzakaita sehazvanzi, tete, sekuru, babamunini, babamukuru, mainini, maiguru.  Mitemo yese iyi iri pasi peRudo. Unovada hako asi hazvinei nezvimwewo zviitiko zvepamusha.

Kozoti rudo gwemukadzi nomurume. Kudanana kwavo kunoita vade kugara vese upenyu hwavo hwese asi vasiri hama. Pobva paita mitemo yokugarisana kwemukadzi nomurume iri pasi perudo inoti vanovata vese, vanochengeta vana vavo vese, vanogara pamusha wavo vese. Rudo guri pamusoro pezvese izvi.

Rudo gwakaita sokuti ukatora masvosve akawanda womaisa mubhora (football) wosiya pane buri. Masvosve akagara mubhora iri anongochengetedza magarire awo nemitemo yekugara kwemasvosve. Isuwo vanhu tiri kukati merudo tichigara tichichengetedza mitemo youpenyu hwedu.  Rudo ndigumwe chete gunoitwa nenhengo ia idzo dzataongorora. Toti Harare rudo, iwe unokwanisa kugara kuHayi Firidzi, kana kuMt Pleasant, kana kuHighlands kana kuMbudzi. Pese pawagara une maonere ako ekuti Harare yakamira sei asi pane umwe ane MAP yese yeharare anoina sezvairi. 

Rudo hagusi pachombo chomurume kana chitubu chomukadzi. Rudo handi kuvatana. Rudo handi kukisana kana kubhabhadzirana magaro. Rudo handi kutengerana zvinhu nokufonerana kana kunyorerana tunhu tunonaka kuverenga. Bodo. Zvese izvi munoita nokuti mune rudo kare. Zvese izvi zvinogoneka kuitwa nevasina rudo zvachose.

Murume anokwanisa chose kukupinza chombo agokurhoja zvaunofunga kuti zvinonaka asi asina kana rudo pauri. Apedza anotokuudza kuti chipheka ndikuendese kumba kwako.

Mukadziwo anokwanisa chose kukuvhurira makumbo agokuitira chikapa agodembademba muchipanana zvinonaka, asi adaro agokuudza kuti i ten dollars.

Murume/mukadzi anokwanisa kukutengera zvinhu nokukubhadharira rent asingambokudi

Mukadzi/murume anokwanisa kukufonera nokukurezva pafoni asi rudo asina.

Saka tanga wahwisisa kuti rudo chiiko uye uyu munhu wawada kupa rudo anokwanisawo here kukupa rudo.

Rudo tinodzidza nezvago munhuri dzedu kubva tiri vanana. Kana munhu akakura asingapiwi rudo nevabereki vake zvinomunetsa kuzokwanisa kupa umwe munhu rudo akura. Paya tichitarisa nyaya dzokunyengana tinoona kuti vanhu vakawanda mazuvano vari kutarisa kuti munhu ane mari here. Zvokuti ane rudo here zvava kure.

Tinoonazve kuti mumhuri dzakawanda vabereki vakapera nechakapedza mbudzi vakasiira vanhu vana vekurera. Vana ava vanokura vasina anopa rudo asi zvavo vachidya vachiguta nokupinda chikoro. Iwe kana wonyengana navo chitanga waongorora kuti munyuu uyu anohwisisa zvokuti rudo iCOMMITTMENT yeunhu hwake hwese here kana kuti anongoti ndezvechombo/chitubu.

Ukahwa mukomana/musikana ava kukuudza kuti anokuda, kumbira kuti atsanangure kuti

• ·         Anoziva sei kuti anokuda
• ·         Chii chaanokudira
• ·         Zvakatanga sei kuti akude.

Usamupindura kusvika apedza kukutaurira. Zvadaro chiongorora wea kuti nyaya yake yakarerekera pazvinhu zvina zviye here kana kuti pakuti akakuona nemaziso iota ruchiva gwekuda kuvata newe nokuti une magaro, mazamu, chiso, makumbo akanaka, kana kuti anofunga kuti une mari, mota, mombe, bhizimisi, zvinoonekwa sokuti zvingamusimudzira muupenyu.

Rudo chinhu chakakosha chose mumba. Rudo haisi Phylosophy kana kuti IDEA, kana kuti THEORY. 

Udzai Vamwe!!!

Nyaya dzokuroya kwevaroyi

Panyika pano mupasi rese munyika dzese kune vanhu vanohi vanoroya. Vakawanda vavo vanhukadzi asi kune varumewo vanohi vanoroya. Kuroya nokuroyana inyaya inoitika zvikuru munyika ine vanhu vatema  asi kuvarungu nemaIndiya nemaChaina zvirikovo hazvo. Kunyika dzevatema zvakawandaisa. Pari zvino kunohi nyika inohi Haiti ndiyo iri mberi pakuroya.

Kwedu kuZimbabwe kunohi kune varoyi munzwimbo dzakawanda dzenyika yedu. Ukaterera zvinotagugwa nevanoziva nezvekuroya unohwa vachiti varoyi vanobva kure nekwaunogara ndivo vanoroya zvakasimba. Kana uri kuMasvingo vanhu vanohi vanoroya chose ndevekwaMutare. Kana uri kuHarare, vekuMasvingo ndivo shasha dzekuroya. Kana uri kuGWERU, VekuKaribha ndivo vanoziva basa. Takadaro vanhu vekuMalawi vanohi vanoroya chose. Handinawo kumbohwa munhu wekuMozambikwi kuhi vanoroya.

Saka kuroya kuita sei?

Vanohwisisa nyaya dzekuroya vanokwanisa kukurondedzera nyaya dzinotoda vanhu vane maDhigiri ezve Remote Control Technologies kuti uzvihwisise. Nyaya dzavanokurondedzera dzinoda vanhu vanonyora mabhoku aya anohi SCIENCE FICTION. Unoterera zuva rese uchibvunza mibvunzo asi zvinonetsa kuti uwane mhinduro dzakakwana. Unohwa munhu achikuudza kuti nhingi akaroiwa nanhingi ndokubva afa. Ukabvunza kuti pakuroya kwacho chii chakaitika chaicho, havadi kukuudza asi kuti iwe nyakuterera vanoda ungobvumirana navo kuti munhu akafa nokuti akaroiwa.

Kune vamwe vanofunga kuti kufamba usiku usina kupfeka zvoreva kuti uri muroyi. Tikaongorora nyaya iyi tinoona kuti vanoona sokuti kufamba usiku usina kupfeka handiko kuroya kwacho asi kungoti zvinoreva kuti uri kuroya. Sakai we nokuda kuhwisisa ukazobvunza kuti saka pavanofamba vasina kupfeka apa vaofamba vachiiteiko? Hauwani mhinduro yakakwana.  Ndakaudzwa nomurume anobva kuNigeria kuti vanofamba vasina hembhe kuti vakwanise kudya mitumbu yevanhu vakafa. Ndikati ko kana munhu afa iwe uchida kumudya, kufamba usina kupfeka zvinokubatsirei pakudya?  Zvikahi “Kana uchidya nyama yemunhu, unofanira kudya usiri munhu kwaye dzisaka vachifamba vasina kupfeka.”

Kana ariwo mafungire evanhu vasiri varoyi, zvinotaridza kuti kuona kwavo hakuna kukwana nokuti havasi kunyatsokwanisa kupindira mibvunzo.

Koitazve vamwe vanofunga kuti varoyi vanhu vanokwanisa kubhururuka vakagara murusero vakatakura zvinhu zvokuroyesa nazvo. Ukabvunza kuti rusero chinhu zhakakura Seiko chinokwanisa kutakura vanhu vaviri kana vatatu uye chigokwanisazve kubhururuka chisina injini chichienda kunodiwa kuendhwa nomuroyi wacho. Kune vanhu vakawanda vanofunga kuti muroyi munhu anokwanisa kuita chero chaada kuita chisingagonekwi nevanhu vasiri varoyi. Ukafunga kuti mudenga mune mhepo inotonhora zvokuti munhu anofanira kutenge akapfeka majasi anodziya cose, asi muroyi anohi anotokumura hembhe dzake obhururuka asina kupfeka.  Pakubhururuka apa haana kamuchini kaya kokutaridza kwaari kuenda asi ipapo usiku. Haana magetsi, haana chinoratidza kuti ari mudenga zvakadii chinohi pachirungu ALTIMETER. Haanazve chinoratidza kuti ari kumhanya zvakadii chinohi SPEDOMETER.  Zvinotaridza kuti varoyi vanhu vakachenjera chose chose kupfuura vanhu vanobhururusa ndege.

Tadaro tobvunzazve kuti kubhururusa rusero usina kupheka usiku ndiko kuroya here? Vanopindura vote kwete. Kubhururusa rusero kungotaridza kuti unogona kuita zvisingagonekwi nevamwe uye zvinoitwa muroyi ari muzhira kuenda kundoroya kwacho. Saka kana asvikako achaitei chinohi ari kuroya. Tinohwa zvohi anopinda muimba yakakiiwa nomukati obva aroya. Chibvunza kuti ava mukati memba anoitei chinohi aroya. Ndipo unoudzwa nyaya dzisingahwisisiki nomunhu ane njere. Kwahi anokurhoja uvete kana kukutaudza uvetekana kukutema nyora uvete.

Pazvitatu izvi zvinoti kurhoja munhu avete, kutaura nomunhu avete kana kutema nyora munhu avete, zvinoita sokuti wapedza nguva uchigadzira zvinhu zvakawanda kuti usvikoita chinhu chisina mature. Kupedza vhiki yese uchiruka rusero wodzidzira kubhururuka pamwe uchimbobondera pamiti nezvimwe, pamwe uchimborasika, pamwe uchishaya pekumhara, zvese izvi kuti usvikorhoja munhu wausingazivi asi vaunoziva vanoda kuvata newe vasina avarhoja zvine musoro upi izvozvo?

Zvikwambo

Koitazve vanhu vanohi varoyi nokuda kwekuti vane zvitokorochi/zvikwambo. Ukabvunza munhu anoziva nezvezvikwambo kuti chikwambo chiiko, anokuudza kuti chinhu chakaita somunhu asi chisiri munhu uye chisiri mhuka. Chinokwanisa kudhiraivha bhazi, rhori, chitima, mota, kana ndege. Chinokwanisazve kupinda mubhangi chichinoba mari chichipa muridzi wacho.  Chinodya zvokudya zvinonetsa kuwana zvakaita seropa romunhu kana kuti mukaka wemunhu, kana poriji.  Chinokwanisa kurova vanhu vasingawirirani nomuridzi wacho, uye kurhoja vakadzi vevanhu muraini. Zvinohi hakuna chikwambo chechikadzi. Zvikwambo zvese zvirume. saka hakuna chikwambo chinovata nomurume wemunhu. Kune zvinovata nevakadzi vevanhu chete.

Kushata pameso kana muviri
Kana uri munhu akashata pameso vanhu vanokasira kubvuma kuti uri muroyi kana murume wako avaudza kuti uri muroyi. Zvimwe chetezvo kana uri munhu akakoresa. Zvinohi kudya nyama yomunhu zvinokodza  vadyi vacho saka munhu akakora anobva ahi akodzwa nokudya vanhu. Iyi inyaya inonetsa chose nokuti inongowanikidza vanhukadzi. Murume akaita zidumbu risingaiti anohi munhu webhizimisi, asi mukadzi akakora kohi adya nyama yomunhu.

Zviitwa zvevaroyi:

Totarisazve zviitwa zvevaroyi tinoona kuti pamagarire edu panofanira kuti munhu umwe noumwe adzidze zvinohi TRANSFERABLE SKILLS. Muroyi munhu anofanira kuti ange achiita mabasa anotaridza zvinhu zvavanogona kuita.

Takaita makore anoda kusvika gumi nyika yedu ine vanhu vaida kubudamo asi vachishaya kuti vobuda sei.  Kwaifanira kuti vanhu vanogona kubhururusa rusero vange vachiyambusa vanhu vakawanda usiku humwe nohumwe vachivaendesa kuSouth Africa, America, Canada, Australia, UK, Germany, France, China, pasina kana passport kana Visa. Asi tinoona kuti pamakore ese awa hapana munhu umwe chete akambohi anoyambusa vanhu. Vanhu vaingodyiwa nengwena paLimpopo apo kuri kushaya anovabatsira. Asi muchaona kuti kuchaita umwe munhu anozviti muporofita achatanga basa iri vanhu vachimupa mari asi pasina waanoyambusa. Kupusa kwevanhu vemunyika yedu hakuperi. 

Toonazve kuti vaMugabe avo vaitukwa nemhomho yese kuti havagoni kutonga nyika, hapana akambofungavo kupinda mumba mavo usiku kundovataudza vavete kana kuvatema nyora. 

Koitazve umwe mudhara anohi Jonathan Moyo aitukwa nokunyombewa nevanhu vakawanda chose asi tinoonazve kuti hapana akafunga kupinda mumba make usiku nokumurhoja nokumutema nyora nokumutaudza ari kuhope.

Zvinhu zvakadai zvinotiratidza kuti vanhu vacho vanogona kuroya njere chaidzo Havana kana kuti hakuna munhu anogona zvinhu zvatinofunga kuti zvinoitwa nevaroyi. Rudzi gwedu ndegwevanhu vanofarira chose kuudzana nhema pazvinhu zvakawanda zvatisina ruzivo nazvo. Saka tichizoona kuti vamwe vedu vakayambuka gwizi gweruzivo, vanotanga kubvunza mibvunzo yakawanda panyaya dzakaita seidzi nokuti vatsananguri venyaya idzi vange vagarisa vachiudza vanhu nhema pasina anobvunza kuti zviri kufama sei.    

Tinoonazve kuti kune varume vanoramba vakadzi vavo vachiti nokuti mukadzi anoroya. Ukaongorora kutyisa kwekuroya unoona kuti dai murume aitofunga kuti zvechokwadi mukadzi wake anoroya aibva atotadza kumuramba nokuda kwekutya kuroiwa naye. Asi tinoona vakawanda vanorambwa vachingoenda pasina chinomboitika kumurume uya amuramba.  Kunongozotiwo varume vati kurei vave kutadza kumisa chombo ndivo vanozopomera vakadzi vavo vavakaramba mhosva yokuti ari kumuroya kuti asamisa chombo. Kuri kutya kuenda kumurapi kunorapiwa pazviri.

Nyaya dsese dzinotaugwa pakuroya nevaroyi hadzina kuti tasa. Hakuna  munhu anobvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera angapindugwa zvakakodzera panyaya idzi nokuti hakuna munhu anoziva kuti chii chinohi kuroya. Vese vanotaura nezvazvo vanongotiudza zvinhu zvisina kana musoro. Unotoita sewakaterera chimwana chiri muGrade 1 chiri kudzidza kutaura ngano.

Ukahwa murume wako ava kukuudza uroyi, chibva waziva kuti haachakudi zvachose asi haana chinhu chaanokwanisa kukupomera kuti ndicho chawakaita. Zvadaro tora twako uende kwenyu nokuti murume haachakudi. Kazhinji ava nehure raava kuvata naro zvokuti iwe hauchina chaungaita ukabuda uri mupenyu pazviri.  Kuudzwa uroyi zvinoreva kuti murume akufungira rufu. Chibuda uri mupenyu.

Nyaya dzinotaugwa nezvikomana zvomuGrade 1 zvichigocha maputi.

Muporofita abigwa mari nechikwambo

Nyoka yawanikwa mumota

Mwana akachinja kuita nyoka

Nyaya dzakadai wega kana une makore anopfuura 6 unongoona kuti dzinonyogwa nevanhu vasina zvimwe zvine musoro zvokuita. Ukahwa munhu mukuru achidzitaura chiziva kuti njere dzake ishomanana. Hakuna zvakadai zvinokwanisika kuitika.


Bvunzai Vamwe!!!!
kuita sei kuroya?
Muroyi chii?
Ndingadzidzirepi kuroya?
Mukadzi wangu muroyi here?
Murume wangu muroyi here?
Ndiri kuroiwa nani?
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Ndakadyiswa here?