Kuudza umwe wako kuti wabata siki kuzhe

Kana wabata siki kuhure kana chikomba, chii chaunofanira kuita? Siki dzinobatika dzakawanda. Ndakambonyora nezvadzo asi pano ndoda kutarisa nyaya yokuudzana kuti inoita here kana kuti haiiti. Kune vakawanda vanobata siki idzi vachiuya nadzi mumba. Dzimwe dzinouraya, dzimwe dzinorapika. Chii chatinofanira kuita nenyaya iyi. Apa ndiri kutarisa iye munhu wacho ane siki yaabata kuzhe kuti pane zvaangaita here kuti musha wake usafa nokuda kwesiki iyi. Zvikuru kana akaroorana nomunhu anofarira zvinhu zvake nguva yese?

Tinnoona kuti kune vanhu vakawanda vanoti murume ofa vhiki ino, mukadzi osarawo achitevera mwedzi usina kupera, iri nyaya yokuti pakubata zvigwere hatisi kuudzana mudzimba umu. Pakadai vana vanosara dzava nherera vabereki vese vaenda. Riyawo hure kana chikomba kwakabatwa siki pamwe rakatofawo kare. Kana dai risina kufa, haumbooni richizouya kuzorera vana vako. Mubvunzo wandinawo ndewekuti munhu anoita zvivindhi zvokuvata nehure/chikomba angashaya chivindhi chokuudza umwe wake kuti abata siki here?  Mubvunzi uyu unokwanisa kudavigwa neavo vakambozviwana vari panyaya yakadai.

Ukabvunza munhu kana ogwara vanhu vese vava kuziva kuti upenyu hapachina, unohwa nyaya dzakawanda. Ndakambobvunza imwewo hama yandakawana yapera muviri pandakaenda kumusha kuti'

"Nhai babamunini, shuwa mange marambigwa namaininini here kuzosvika pakuda zvemahure?" zvikahi,

 "Maiguru mubvunzu wenyu wataridza kuti hamuhwisisi nyaya iyi, nokuti kana wazvipira kuhura, hauna nguva yokufunga nezvekuti siki inobatwa. Ukatokwanisa kuzvifunga, unosimuka woenda kumba kwako usina kuvata nehure racho. Kana wako asipo, zvinonetsa kuti wawasangana naye akanyemwerera iwe woramba. Unohwa sokuti hausi murume."

Saka varume vese vanongovata here nomunhu wavasangana naye nokuti anyemwerera kana kuti pane imwe CHEMISTRY inonetsa varume vedu kungosiya pasina zvaaita. Ko kana afunga kuita, ko kushandisawo kondomu zvinodiiko? Iyi yese mibvunzo yedu tichitarisa tiri kuzhe kwenyaya. Vaya vaviri vari kuzviita vanozobvunza mibvunzo yese iyi vapedza kuvatana, hana yorova kuti pamwe nda bata chigwere.

Ndinoona nemwadhi dzandinowana kubva kuvanhu vakawanda varume nevakadzi, kuti izvo nyaya yokuti moda kuvatana, musingazivani, kuti umwe wenyu ataure kuti NGATISHANDISE KONDOMU, zvinoremera vakawanda izvozvo. Kunyengana nokubvisana mabhurugwa hazvinetsi, asi kuzotaura nezvekondomu zvinonetsa. Kuti sei zvichinetsa ndeimwewo nyaya iyi.

RESULT yacho ndeyokuti mapedza munhu anoenda kumba atova nesiki, iyi kana iyo. Adaro anonovata nowake siki iya isina kurapwa kuna kutombozikamwa kuti anayo. Pamutemo wemazuvano, wekuzhe kana wamuda, chishandisa kondomu. Kana zvatadza, chirega kunovata nowemumba usati wahwisisa kuti une siki here kana kwete.

Toti wavata nehure/chikomba asi wekumba ariko. Wosvika kumba wemumba achidawo zvinhu zvake, unofanira kuita sei kuti azive kuti hauzivi kuti une chigwere here kana kwete? Ukamuudza kuti wambovata noumwewo munhu, watotanga mago zvawo ange akazvivatira. Ukanyarara, unokwanisa kumupa siki.  Saka wodii?

Kana wako asiko, unokwanisa kuwana nguva yokunovhenekwa kuti une chigwere here kana kwete, wozosangana newako wava kuziva, uye wawana nguva yokufunga zvokuita nenyaya yako. Kana uchitya kutaura asizve usingadi kupawako chigwere, unokwanisa kukumbira shamwari yako kukuperekedza kumba, monoitirana hasha pane anokwanisa kukununura.

Ngatitange neyaya yokunhu anohura asi mukadzi/murume wake aripo pamba uye asingamurambiri, zvinoreva kuti haana mukana wekuramba kwenguva inotendera kunoonekwa nevarapi. Saka chasara ndechokuti audze umwe wake kana kunyarara wovata naye akadaro.

Munhu kana afunga zvokuhura, pakuhura kwake haafungi nezvevana uye haana pikicha mumusoro wake yokuona upenyu hwevana, kukura kwavo, kupinda chikoro, kuendawo ku University, kuzotsvaka mabasa, vabereki vari vapenyu vachipawo mazano. Haana fungwa yokuda kuona vazukuru vake. Ane fungwa imwe chete yokuda kurhojana nouyu wekuzhe chete. Chero shamwari dzake dzikada kumutsiura, anotoona sokuti ndivo vasingawhisisi zvinhu zvakanaka paupenyu. Zvokufunga zvakanaka zvinozouya mumusoro munhu atohura, ndipo pamunoona munu otanga kuchema misodzi kwahi seiko musina kunditsiura, ndimi makarega ndichibata chigwere hino nhasi ndofa. Kana umwe wake ava nechigwerewo munoona kuti pamusha pashaika mufaro.

Saka mubvunzo uripo ndewekuti unoudza umwe wako sei kuti "Ngatimbomira kuvatana nokuti ndahura nhasi." Kana uri murume/mukadzi mumba imbofunga kuti unodii kana mukadzi/murume wako akauya kumba akakuudza kuti ahura uye haana shuwa kuti ane siki here kana kuti haana saka dai mambomira kuvatana kusvika adzoka kuTEST. Unokwanisa kuurawa musi wakadai. Kana une shamwari dzokubasa, kuCHURCH, kubhora, kuCLUB, dzese dzinonoudza wofumugwa woonekwa sokuti hauhwisisi asi ipapo ndiwe watoita musoro wekudzivirira umwe wako kubata chigwere.

Ini sokuona kwangu pane nyaya mbiri apa, yokutanga ndeyemaonero emunhu ahura. Ahura hake asi azofunga mhuri yake saka kukuudza kwaari kuita kuda kuti uhwisise kuti hazvichaiti kuti tivate tese saka ngatimbomira titaure kana uchida kutaura. Kana usingadi kutaura chingobvuma tisavata tese.

Munhu anohura haanetseki pakureva nhema. Anozosvika pamba atova neSTORY yake zvokuti anokwanisa kutaurira umwe nhema dzinobvumuka. Zvodaro kusvika pakuti iwe wobvuma nhasi, Mangwana wobvuma, Asi kuti uzoramba wongobvuma hazvizoiti. Toti ipapo nyakuhura aenda kunovhenekwa owanikwa ane chigwere, paanozouya kumba anofanira kuchibuda pachena. Kana asingadi kupa umwe wake chigwere zveshuwa anofanira kutaura chokwadi.

Kutaura chokwadi kana wava pakadai zviri nani kungotaura sezvazviri. Wana nguva yokutaura vana vasipo Kutanga nyaya yakadai pane vana zvinokwanisa kukanganisa SECURITY yevana. Zviri nani kutanga nyaya vana vaenda kunovata kumba kweshamwari kana kwambuya. Zvadaro wana mukana wekutanga nyaya yako kumunhu asina kana fungwa yokuti pane chaitika. Gara une fungwa yokuti achaita SHOCK. Ndipo pandati kana zvichikunetsa kutaura wega, wana shamwari yokuvapo paunotanga nyaya, kana kutoudza shamwari kuti itange nyaya iwe ugozorondedzera.  Kana yangotanga hazvizonyanyi kunetsa kuitaura. Ndakabatsira vatatu kutaura nyaya dzavo After ndambotaura navo kwenguva kuti zviri nani vaudze umwe wavo. Ndipo pandakahwisisa kuti inyaya inonetsa kutaurira munhu waunoziva kuti anokuda asi anofanira kuziva zvandaita. Kana yatotaugwa ikabuda mumuromo, haichakwanisi kumiswa saka watopedza panonetsa.

Nyaya yechipiri ndeya Nyakuudzwa. Zvakaoma kuhwa munhu waunoda achikuudza kuti ahura uye ane siki. Unoona munhu achiterera nyaya yakadai achiita seimba yadhirika, dziri shungu uye kusahwisisa kuti zvaitika sei. Munhurume kazhinji anotanga kuterera omboita nguva zvisina kunyatsopinda mumusoro, ozoita hasha zvokukwanisa kukuvadzi mukadzi. Kana uri mukadzi wemunhu, ona kuti pane umwe munhu paunoudza murume wako. Kana uri murume mukadzi wako akaita hasha, unokwanisa kumubata zvichibva nokuti munhu akaita sei. Kana waudzwa ukahwa muviri wako uchiita Depression kuita sewafigwa, hapana chakaipa. Inyaya inogumbura saka gumbuka hako asi terera kuti umwe wako anoti kudii nokuti kana usina kuterera uchashaya INFORMATION yokukubatsira kufunga zvokuita. Nyakuudzwa anokwanisa kuita makore ari munhu asina mufaro, zvichibva nokuti wabata nyaya yako sei. Zvikuru kana uchida umwe wako.

Kana waudzwa, chokutanga hwisisa kuti umwe wako akanganisa upenyu hwenyu mese asi apa ari kuda kuti kukanganisa kwake kusawedzera. Dai anyarara aikupa siki. Kukutaurira kwaaita kutsvaka mukana wekuchengeta muhuri yenyu. Ita hako hasha nokupopota asi iye atozvipopotera kare saka anohwisisa zvese zvauri kutaura.

Wana nguva yokuongorora zvaitika muupenyu hwako. Wana nguva yokubvunza umwe wako maitikire azvo. Kana hure/chikomba ari munhu anokwanisika kutaura naye, enda unotaura naye uhwisise kuti anofungei noumwe wako.  Varume kazhinji vanongovata nomukadzi wemunhu kuti vagobhosita kuti akakwira mukadzi wemunhu asi pasina RELATIONSHIP.  Vakadzi pakuita chikomba kazhinji kutsaga rudo, kuri kushaya rudo mumba. Kakuziva kuti wahurigwa, zvibvunzewo kana iwe uri munhu asina kubata umwe wako zvakakodzera. Tisiri kuti kuhura kwese kune rhizeni inobva mumba asi kuti iwe nyakuudzwa zvibvunze mibvunzo yese kuti ukwanise kuregerera kana kusaregerera.


Kana waregerera, chigara naye pasi muronge program yokutangazve patsva upenyu hwenyu. Ukaona murume/mukadzi anokuudza kuti aita siki kuzhe saka haadi kuvata newe kusvika yapera, munhu anoziva RESPONSIBILITY yake kwauri. Vashoma vanhu vakadai saka ipa RESPONSE yako wambowana nguva yokufunga zvakakwana.
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Mazuvano chihure hachichanetsi nokuti varume nevakadzi vese vari kuchitsvaka, iri ngari yokuti vanhu vakaroorana vanokwanisa kugara kwakasiyana asi vese vachida kuvatana nomunhu. Nyaya yefoni dzomuhombodo iyi yakawedzera chihure nokuti ikozvino unokwanisa kunyenga mukadzi/murume neTEXT zvinova zvisingasvodesi. Wadaro motoronga yokusangana mese muchitoziva kuti muri kusanganira chihure.

Varume nevakadzizve vanoshanda vese pamakambani akawanda vanoswera vese vachiita nyaya saka kuhura hakuvanetsi. Vanhu vakawandisa vanorhojerana kumabasa avo vozoenda kumba kumukadzi/murume vatogutira kubasa. Siki hadzinetsi kubata, zvikuru kune mapenzi asingadi makondomu.


Taurai tihwe vane mashoko.

Kudzingwa pamusha wako nehama dzomurume

Muchikaranga kune vakawanda vane Authority yokudzinga muroora pamusha pake kana murume ashaika kana kuti murume ari munhu akangoitawo fuza zvokuti haazivi chaicho chaanoda muupenyu hwake, anotomirira kuudzwa nehama dzake.

Pano toda kumbotarisa kuti pane zvaunokwanisa here kuita kana waudzwa nehama dzomurume kuti chibva pamusha udzokere kwako. Mazuvano zvinoitika here?

Hama dzinokwanisa kudzinga muroora dzinoti:
Hazvanzi dzemurume
Vanunguna vemurume.
Vamwene mai vemurume.
Baba vemurume

Ukaona mubereki wemurume ada kudzosera muroora kwake pane chaitika kuti mubereki uyu aperegwa, haachazivi zvokuita.

Chinhu chikuru chaiitisa kuti muroora adzosegwe kwake ndechokuti murume wake ashaika asi pamusha hapana mununguna kana muzukuru (mwana watete vemurume) anokwanisa kugara nhaka. Hama dzomurume dzinotarisa kuti zera romukadzi riri papi. Kana achiri wechidiki, vanoziva kuti munhu anofanira kuva nomurume, votsvaka kumudzosera kwake kuti akwanise kunyengwa nevamwe varume. Nyaya inofanira kurongwa ndeyokuti vana vaasara anavo pakashaika murume vanofanira kusara pamusha voreriwa naanambuya nasekuru.

Pakadai panonetsa kuramba kuenda asi muroora anopiwa mukana wekuramba. Anokwanisa kuvaudza kuti anoda kurera vana vake ari pamusha ozodzokera vana vakura, kana kuti anokwanisa kuramba zvachose. Zvadaro haazokwanisi kunyengwa nevamwe varume ari pamusha uyu. Anokwanisazve kudoma murunyana kana muzukuru achiri chimwana chidiki kuti ndiye waachamirira. Hazvirevi kuti anoda nhaka yechimwana ichi asi kuti iTOKEN murume kuti vamubvumidze kugara.

Hazvanzi kana vanunguna vemurume vanokwanisa kudzinga muroora panguva yavadira. Kunoti kana vamupomera mhosva kana kuti murume wake ashaika vabereki vari vanhu vasina simba, hazvanzi dzinokwanisa kudzinga muroora.

Nyaya iyi mazuvano inonetsa nokuti mutemo wenyika wasiyana nomutemo wechiKaranga. Pamutemo wenyika pane kuroorana pamutemo kuviri. Kunoti COMMON LAW kureva kuti mombe youmai yakabviswa asi hamuna kuzonopiwa tsamba yomuchato kuKanzuro. Kozoti kana mune tsamba yomuchato.

Pakadai mutemo unoti kana manga makagarisana zvakadai murume akashaika, zvese zvepamusha zvinosara nomukadzi. Hama dzomurume hadzinei nazvo. Saka pane CONFLICT pamitemo yedu yechivanhu nemitemo yenyika. Hwisisa kuti pakadii ipapo nokuti une simba rokusungisa munhu anouya achikuitira masaramusi asina basa pamba pako murume wako ashaika. Zvikuru kana une vana.

Kana maroorana zviye, iwe nomurume wako hwisisai kuti mutemo unoti kudii. Pakaitika chakaipa terera kutaura kwehama dzake parufu kana kuti pakuzokuvhakashira. Mukachengeta murume wako, iwe uchaona kuti kazhinji hama hadzinei nokuti vana vochengetwa sei. Iwe ndiwe unotofunganya nazvo. Hama dzinongoda kuziva kuti achadya fuma yehama yedu ndiani? Zvokuti zvasiigwa mukadzi nevana hazvifungwi. Potizve hapana anokufungira kuti wadyei nhasi kana kuti vana vadyei. Izvi zvinoitika nokuda kwekuti murume wako pamwe ndiye ange achitochengeta hama idzi. Pakushaika kwake vanoona sokuti vakawana zvinhu zvaange anazvo vanokwanisa kufambira mberi. Havahwisisi kuti zvausina kushandira hazvigari.

Mukaroorana paya, usabvuma kutenga imba zita rako risipo pamapepa emba. Pamutemo musha ndewenyu mese chero makaroorana zveCOMMON LAW kana zvetsamba yomuchato. Kana zita rako riripo pamapepa hazviiti kuti imwe hama inoribvisa iwe usina kusaina.

Murume akashaika iwe mirira vasingazivi mutemo vaende kukoti kunoti hama yedu yashaika. Vakasakuudza kuti chii chavari kufunga iwe tsvaka LAWYER ugadzirise nyaya yako pamutemo. Kasira kupa LAWYER tsamba yomuchato kana unayo. Kana usina taurira Lwayer nyaya yese nokumuratidza ma BIRTH CERTIFICATE evana kuratidza makore amange muri mese uye kuti mune vana vangani. Kasirazve kunotora DEATH Certificate wotaridza vese kubva kuBank kusvika kune vemaBILL emvura, magetsi, nezvimwe. Kana mange mune MORTGAGE yemba chinja zita pasare pane zita rako chete.

Mamirire akaita mutemo wedu muZimbabwe zvinoita kuti kana munhu akatsvaka maWITNESS akawanda, anokwanisa kureva nhema kusvika pakukudzingisa pamusha wako zviri pamutemo chaizvo. Paunozotsvaka APPEAL imba inenge yatotengeswa iwe nevana usisina kwekugara. Uya watengesa anenge atoshandisa mari saka chero ukamusungisa hapana chaunowana.

Mazuvano vanhu vakawanda vanofamba zvakawanda kusvika kunyika dziri kure. Pakufamba uku zvakawanda zvinoitika. Bhazi rinobheuka, Mota inobondera, Ndege inotadza kumhara zvakanaka. Vanhu vanokwanisa kushaika vasingazvifungiri uye pasina ugwere. Izvi zvinotiudza kuti ngatigare takagadzirisa upenyu hwedu kuti chinenge chaitika pasawana umwe munhu anouya okuudza kuti ndiye muridzi wemusha wako

Hwisisai mitemo yedu yechivanhu kuti inofamba sei uye yakaitigwei. Hwisisaizve kuti muroora anoonekwa seasiri hama yepamusha apa. Usagara ichifunga kuti hakuna chinokusudurusa paugere. Hwisisa upenyu. Munhukadzi fungwa kazhinji hatina. Unoona iwe uchitukana nehama dzomurume wako asi uku uri kutukanawo nevaroora vako kuita sokuti hauna kuhwisisa kuti muroora wako akafanana newe zvauri muroorawo kwawakawanikwa.

Garazve uchiziva kune mapepa ezvese zvepamusha pako uye kuti mari dzinofanira kubhadhagwa dzakabhadhagwa saka umwe wenyu akashaika hapana chinowanikwa chisipo.

Udzai vamwe!!!!!!

Vanotaura taurai tihwisisane nokubatsirana.

Kana murume/mukadzi aenda kune imwe nyika kana kujeri

Unofanira kuita sei kana maparadzana kwenhuva refu? Kuparadzana kunokonzegwa nenyaya dzakawanda.

Kusungwa woenda kujeri kwenguva yakareba
Kunotsvaka basa kune imwe nyika
Kurwara woendeswa kuhospitari kwemwedzi yakawanda.
Kusiyaniswa nebasa munyika imwe chete asi mari yebhazi moishaya kuti muonane.

Kubva mugore ra 2001 vanhu vakawanda vakabva munyika yedu vachienda kune dzimwe nyika kundotsvaka upenyu huri nani. Pavanhu ava paiva nevamwe vaiva nemhuri vakasiyana nemhuri dzavo vakandogava munhu ari ega kure uko mhuri yasarawo yega kumusha. Patakazosvika mumakore anoti 2005-2006 kwakabuda vana mai vemba vakawandisa vachisiya varume nevana mudzimba vachienda kune dzimwe nyika.

Imba yokugara
Pakubuda munyika unosvikowana dzimba dzichidhura iwe mari yawauya nayo iri shoma. Zvinokwansika kuti unonokumbirigwa navamwe kwekugara. unokwanisa kufanogara pamba yeshamwari yehama kana shamwari yako. Anokuchengeta pamwe usina mari yokutenga zvokudya kana kukwirisa bhazi kunotsvaka basa. Uya akukumbirira pamwe haana mari yokukubatsirawo. Zvinotora nguva kugadzikana wega. Vakawanda vanomboita nguva vachitambura vozowana basa votanga kuwana mukana wekuronga upenyu hwavo.


Utano:
Kana masiyana kudai pamhuri yenyu panoita nyaya dzakawanda. Murume anogara ega anokwanisa here kurarama srezvaaichiita mukadzi wake aripo? Ndedzipi nyaya dzinogozha kuramba dzakarurama.  Chokutanga inyaya yokudya zvakanaka zvinokurudzira utano. Kana murume ari ega kazhinji anorega nyaya dzokubika orarama nezvinotengwa kunzvimbo dzinotengesa zvokudya zvinokuvadza muviri zvakaita saana KFC, Chip Shop, Pizza Hut, Chinese Take Away, etc.
Munhu ange ane utano oita zimuviri senguruve yemafidha.

Shamwari: 
Chechipiri mukadzi/murume anodawo munhu mukuru wekutaura naye. Kana abva kubasa anosvikogara ega mumba musina umwe mukuru. Zvinoita ave nechishuvo chokudzokera kumusha. Ndipo panozoti akasanganawo noumwe munhu akadarowo, vanokasira kuhwisisana voshamwaridzana. Pamwe munhu wachowo iyeye anenge ane mhuri yakewo kumusha. Ushamwari hwakadai hahwaiitika dai vanhu vasina kubva kumusha. Kungowana munhu wekuita naye nyaya chinhu chaknakawo kumunhu mukuru. Foni yokufona kumusha haina kufanana nomunhu aripo.

Kuda wekuvata naye: 
Pakushamwaridzanawo paya kana shamwari uya ari wechirume iwe uri wechikadzi, mese muchiziva kuti mhuri dzenyu dziri kure kure, zvinoitika kuti umwewo musi munoita nyaya kusvika pakuhwirana tsitsi dzokushaya wekuvata naye mopedzisira mavatana imi pachenyu. Ukaterera nyaya dzavamwe vakaita dambidziko iri, unotohwisisa kuti hava kuda chihure asi kana waita gore rese uri wega mari iya yaunotambira haitsivi mhuri yako. Unoda munhu wekubata, wekukisa, wekuvata naye asi wako ari kure kure. Kuvatana kwenyu kunokwanisa kuita kwemakondomu hako kuti mimba dzisabata asi pa EMOTION apa panonetsa kushanda napo nokuti fungwa inoziva kuti mhuri yako iri kumusha.

Mapepa: 
Kana wakasiya mhuri kumusha, ndokusvika munyika yawaenda ndokuhi mirira mapepa okuti ugaremo unokwanisa kushungurudzwa nazvo. Kana muri mu UK panguva yemakore anoti 2000 -20012, waikwanisa kumirira mapepa kwemakore akawanda. Vamwe nanhasi mapepa havana. Izvi zvinoreva kuti chero pakaita rufu kumusha, haukwanisi kuenda nokuti ukabuda haukwanisi kudzoka. Zvinorevazve kuti haukwanisi kuti mhuri yako iuye kwauri. Kuzvitsanangura kwavari zvinonetsa, vanongoona sokuti uri kuita maune. Zvinopa mese maSTRESS akawanda uye DOUBT yokuti munodanana here. Pakadai ukawana munhu wekutaurira matambudziko ako iyewo ane ake kadaro, zvinokwanisika kuti munopedzisira mava muchihure pakati penyu. Vamwewo vanotoudza mhuri dzavo kuti havana mapepa asi ivo vanawo, kuti mhuri dzisada zvokutevera.

Chihure:
Kotiwo vamwe vanga vachingoti chero mhuri dzavo dziripo vanongohurirana mumba. Pavanopatsana kuhura kuya kowedzera asi mumoyo mavo vanongoti vanodanana. Chihure chiri nyore kana chitoziva kuti hapana anokuona saka hapana anokupopotera kana kukutsamwira nokuti havazivi zviri kuitika.

Muvanhu vakasiya mhuri dzavo vachienda kune dzimwe nyika mune vanhu vakawandisa vasingahuri. Vanozvichengeta chero zvodii. Asi ipapo chero uchida kuzvichengeta chero usingadi, miyedzo inowanda chete. Kana une basa risingadi ma AWA akawanda pavhiki, uchaona kuti unozvipa nguva yokusonganawo nevamwe vekwedu. Pakadai unototi usvike pamuedzo chete.  Asi tinoona vakawanda vachizvibata. Kuva kure nemhuri yako hazvirevi kuti wochiita hure. Vamwe vanoita makore mashanu, manomwe, gumi akazvipira kuti chihure bodo.


Mari:
Kana vemhuri vakaona kuti mwana wanhingi akaenda mhiri akatumira vabereki vake mota akavakira mhuri yake imba yakanaka, votofunga kuti mhiri kuya kune mari yakawanda. Iwe ukasazotumirawo mhuri yako, vofunga kuti uri kuidya nani mari yese iyoyo. Havachahwisisi kuti pamwe basa raunaro haripi mari yakawanda. Kune vakawanda vanotambira mari isingakwani kuti vagare kwavanogara saka kuzoti vatumire imwe kumusha zvonetsa. Kana wakaenda mhiri kuti upenyu hwemhuri hukwanisike, zvinokunetsa fungwa kuti sei usingawani basa rinopa mari inokwanisa zvawakavinga.

Nyaya yemari inosvitsa vakawanda pakaoma muupenyu nokuti unowana tsamba dzinobva kwese kwese dzichida mari asi iwe mari yacho hauna. Paunoituimira uya anoshandisa haafungi mawanigwe akaitwa mari yacho. Anotoshambadza kuti uyai muone kugona kwangu nomurume/mukadzi wangu. Vaya vadaidzwa vodawo kupiwa tii kubva pamari iya.  Vana vechikoro vanodawo mari .

Kana masiyana
Kana masiyana, kufungirana kunowedzera. Vakawanda havadi kubvuma kuti pakusiyana uku mukadzi/murume hapana chakaipa chaanoita. Ukazoverenga ma FORUM edu, unoohwa vakawanda vachibvunza kuti nyaya dzavo dzechihure dzoitwa sei, ipapo vari kure nemhuri. Nyaya dzakadai dzinowedzera vaya vane mhuri kure kusabvuma kuti vakavimbika.

Pakufonerana mibvunzo yokufeyafeya inowedzera.  pakutarirana ukataura chimwe chinhu, umwe wako anobvunza zvakawanda pazviri kuti ahwisise kuti chii chiri kuitika.

Pakudya unoona kuti uri wega. Paya paisigara umwe wako unozviona kuti hapana aripo.

Pakunovata unoita dambudziko rokuva LONELY chero vana varipo. munhu mukuru anodawo umwe mukuru mumba. Zvinokudya moyo zvakawanda.

Pakumuka unomuka wega. Hapana anokukwazisa. Hapana wekuudza zvawarota.

Saka pazuva rimwe nerimwe pane zvakawanda zvinokufungisa kuti uri wega. Vamwe vanopedzisira vaita DEPRESSION nazvo. Kupatsaniswa chinhu chisina kunaka pavanhu vakaroorana. Pane zvese zvinoitika hakuna kana chinhu chimwe chete chingahi chakanaka kuzhe kwekuti mari mumba inowedzera kana uyo aenda akasira kuwana basa uye mapepa.

Mutemo wechivanhu:
Pamutemo kana murume/mukadzi wako ari mupenyu haufaniri kuwana nguva yokuhura noumwe munhu chero upenyu hwarema zvakadii. Asi tinoona vamwe vakasiya mhuri vachiita zvisina kufanira. Naponapo vakazopiwa mapepa vokwira ndege voenda kunoona mhuri dzavo. Vayavo vakasiiwa kumusha vanombomiramirawo asi kana murume/mukadzi oti ava kudzoka vochinja maitire avo.

Mu South Africa mune vanhu vedu vakawanda. Vhiki yakapera ndakawana mwadhi yaitaura kuti mukadzi wemunyori anohi akabvisa mimba kumusha. Mimba yacho kwahi haisi yemunyori zvinoreva kuti ange avata noumwe munhu pasina kana kondomu. Pakutaurirana ndakadzidza kuti mukadzi akasiiwa kumusha makore maviri nokuti murume ange asina mari yokunomuona uye asina pokugara kuti mukadzi akwanisewo kuzovhakasha. Iye murume aibvumawo kuti akavata nevakadzi vakawanda asi aishandisa makondomu saka chigwere kana kumitisa haana. Saka pohwimwi apa.

Inyaya dzakawanda dzakadai. Vakawanda vava kungogamuchira chihure chevavakaroorana navo kuti mhuri ienderere mberi nokuti iye anenge achitozivawo kuti akahura. Nyaya inozonetsa kugamuchira kana iwe usina kumbohurawo asi umwe wako akahura.

Mutemo wedu unoti regai kuhura asi mamirire akaita zvinhu mazuvano ndeekuti tinoziva kuti vamwe vedu vanohura saka vaya vasingahuri mozvichengeta kuti tese tisakuvadzana nenyaya yokupatsana mudzimba.


Imbofungai nayo nyaya iyi nokuti yaputsa misha yakawandisa kuvanhu vedu. Mhosva iri papi uye inogadzirika here nyaya iyi? Ko vana vanokura sei pakadai?

Murume wako akaenda kujeri anokwanisa kusangana nezvakawanda ikoko odzoka ave umwewo munhu akanganiswa muviri wake. Vekujeri muZimbabwe havapiwi maKondomu sezvinoita kune dzimwe nyika. Kana asungwa kuzhe kwenyika yedu anokwanisa kupiwa makondomu saka zvinoita kuti adzoke asina chigwere, asi kungonotesitiwa chinhu chakanakawo. Chinonetsa kuudza murume wako kuti iwe uri kufunga kuti akaiswa chombo kumashure noumwe murume saka ngaanotesitwa. Zvinokuvadza fungwa yake kuziva kuti uri kufunga kuti aivata nevamwe varume. Asi chokwadi ndechokuti zvinokwanisa kuva zvakaitika.

Kuti mukadzi wako asakufungira izvi, iwe murume tanga nyaya yacho umuudze kuti nguva yawange usipo yakarebesa saka pamwe anokwanisa kuva akamboitawo LONELINESS saka mese endai kuTEST.

Vamwe varume/vakadzi havadi kuudzwa kuti TEST inodiwa. Kwahi wanditi ndaihura. Asi pachokwadi vamwe vedu vanohura kana murume/mukadzi asipo. Iwe haungazivi kuti wako akahura here kana kwete saka endai mese kuTEST.


Nyaya yokubuda munyika yedu yakapatsanisa mhomho huru saka vanhu vava mugungano iri vakawandisa.
Kozotizve pakufamba tichinoona mhuri dzedu apa tinosangana nevakawanda, vamwe tichifamba navo nguva refu. Kunyengana mudzindege nemabhazi e Harare-Cape Town emazuva maviri mumalift. kunoitika.  Totizve kupanana foni numbers, toti kutaurirana pa FACEBOOK, TWITTER, MY SPACE, WHATSAPP, VIBER, etc, kunowanda, zvikuru kana wako asipo. Saka endai kuTEST musati madzokerana.

Kwamuri ikoko kana zemo rakwirisa paya wapedza kutaura newako pafoni kuti unoda kumuitei pamunosangana, shandisa maoko, kana watadza shandisa kondomu, femidom, nemapiritsi emimba futi.

Kuhura nehama kwawanda futi. Toti murume aenda Joni, mukadzi asara ega pamba vanunguna nevazukuru vemurume vawaisimboudza kuti ndivo vachagara nhaka murume afa, vanosara vachisvika vachikunemera sekare. Unosvika pakumuchiva wagarisa usina anon'ona kuzasi, kusvika wamubvisira bhurugwa. Zvikangoitika kamwe chete zvotongozoitikazve futi kusvika murume adzika. Hama ikangojaira kukupindira mumba nyaya yako yokuhura haichazoperi futi nokuti mese munoziva kuti zvoitwa sei. Kuvata nomurunyana hakutani, chero ari jaya. Kuvata nomuzukuru ndizvo futi.



Ngatisanyeberana kuti chihure hakuna.

UDZAI VAMWE!!!!!

Biggest single issue to fractured Zimbabwean families in the last ten years. People studying social Sciences will have several different types of PhDs from this issue over a long period. 

Murume anokunyenga iwe une Ring

Munoionawo sei nyaya yokuti iwe une ring yomuchato asi murume wawasangana naye pamabhazi, pa chitima kana pamusika kana muraini rema passport, otanga kukunyenga? Kuti ade kukunyenga chii chaaona pauri?  Tinoziva vamwe vanoti akabereka mwana anongonyengwa nevarume vaanosangana navo? Nyaya dzakadai dzinobva pamurume here kana kuti pamukadzi ari kunyengwa wacho?

Muridzi wemukadzi anofungei nazvo pakuhwa kuti mukadzi wake anyengwa. Kana akapopotera mukadzi, zvinenge zvine FEARNESS here? 

Muridzi wanyakunyenga anofungeiwo nazvo? Ko ivo vaviri ava vanonyengana vanhu vakaita sei?

Munhukadzi kana awanikwa mukachata, anopfeka RING yomuchato sezvinoitawo murume wake. Izvi zvakaitigwa kuti vanomuona vazive kuti ndimai vemba. Ring haikuyeuchidzi kuti uri mukadzi wemunhu. Hazviiti kuti ukangamwe kuti uri mukadzi wemunhu. Ring inonzi TOKEN yokuti mukapanana menge muchisimbisana kuti pauviri hwenyu mava munhu umwe chete. Vaoona RING iya vozivawo kuti une chitsidzo noumwe munhu.

Zvoitika kuti kune vanhu vakawanda vasina hanya nokuti munhu ane RING here kana kuti haana. Saka ndipo paunonyengwa kana uri wega. Saka pano ndati ngatimboongorora CHARACTER yomunhu asinei nokupfekwa kweRING.

Ukaverenga zvinonyogwa nevamwe varume vasina njere dzakawanda pama FORUM evanhu vedu vokuZimbabwe, unohwisisa kuti kune vakawanda vane chido chokuvata nevakadzi vevanhu. Zvinoita sokuti chinhu chinodakadza vamwe varume kuwana mukana wekuvata nomukadzi weumwewo murume, iri ngari yokusahwisisa BIOLOGY yenyaya dzokuvatana. Kune vamwe vanofunga kuti muhi mukadzi wemunhu zvinoreva kuti chanzi yokuva nesiki ishoma saka zviri nani kuvata nomukadzi wemunhu pane kuvata nomusikana. Kozotizve vamwe vanotya kutizigwa nomusikana kana aita mimba. Mukadzi wemunhu akaita mimba anngoti ndeyemurume wake saka hapana nyaya inobudapo. Haatomboudzi chikomba kuti aita mimba nacho. Kna akaita mimba murume asipo, anotsvaka mukana wekutevera murume kuti akwigwe agoti mimba ndeyemurume.

Nyaya kana dzakamira dzakadai panotofanira kuva nevarume vanonyenga vakadzi vevanhu. Asi kuti unyenge mukadzi wemunhu kuziva kuti variko vanonyengeka. Saka pobva paita nyaya mbiri, Murume anoda kunyenga mukadzi wemunhu, uye mukadzi wemunhu anonyengeka achidawo kunyengwa.

Varume vanoda zvokunyenga vane mabato akasiyana. Kunoti vanongoti kuwana mukana votonyenga feya feya, akangoona kuti mukadzi uyu haasi kumupopotera ototi chandagwinyira. Unoona zvakaita paINTERNET, murume chero ari kunyika ipi zvayo otokunyenga zve HABIT zviya zvokungoti uri munhukadzi saka unofanira kunyengwa. kasangana nomurume akadai pamabhazi kana pachitima, ukangotaura naye kana kumunyemwerera, ototanga kukunyenga. Oita sokuti akaziva kwemakore saka ava kutoda nhambha yako yefoni. Zvokuti une RING haanei nazvo. Anoziva kuti pakunyenga vakadzi vanoita gumi, pachaita umwe anobvuma kuvata naye.

Pane murume anohi Kinosi anogara kumaraini ekuno. anotaura pachena kuti akanyenga mukadzi wemunhu, akangoita PATIENT chete anopedzisira amukwira chete. Ndiwo mafungire ake uye haasi ega pakufunga zvakadai. Saka paanotanga kunyenga fungwa yake inoti achatokwira mukadzi uyu chete. Kutanga nokumhura murume wemukadzi wacho, zvotevera nokufunga kuti mukadzi waari kunyenga haana njere sezvaakaita iye.

Murume anonyenga mukadzi wemunhu murume anotonyenga vakadzi vevanhu vakawanda, zvinoreva kuti munhu asina STABILITY muupenyu hwake, munhu anoda zvinhu zvinotyisa uye zvinokwanisa kukuvadza upenyu hwake. Asizve munhu anohwisisa kufunga kwevakadzi vevanhu zvokuti anokwanisa kuterera mataurire emukadzi obva aziva kuti pangangoita mukana apa.

Mukadzi wemunu anonyengeka mukadzi anozikamwa nemataurire ake, mafambire ake pane vanhu, mapfekere ake pane vanhu. Varume vachiona mukadzi vakaita zvakaita shumba ichitarisa mhuka yokudya. Shumba haungodzinganisi mhuka dzese dzainoona. Inotanga yaongorora kuti mhuka iyi inobatika here kana kwete. Murume anotanga aongorora kuti mukadzi uyu ndewemunhu asi anonyengeka here kana kwete.

Tinohwa nyaya dzemukadzi anoenda kunoona chikomba akabereka mwana kumusana, odzokako atmbovata nechokomba chiya mwana avete kumba kwechikomba. Anenge ane zvinhu zviviri zvinotaridza kuti mukadzi wemunhu, RING, uye mwana.  Asi vese vari vaviri havanei nazvo. vanongonyengana, vovatanazve.

Murume akakunyenga ukamupindura zvakarurama, zvisina hasha kana kutuka, iye ega anongoziva kuti ndoenderera mberi here kana kuti ndochinja nyaya. Ukaona wanyengwa, murume wacho oramba achitaura nazvo, ziva kuti iwe uri kumupa VIBE yokuti ane chanzi. Kana usingadi kunyengwa muudze zvisina chibhende kuti apfuura muganhu. Kana asiri murume wekuziva, ari wekusangana naye, ukamuudza akaramba achidaro, simuka undogara kure naye. Kana muri muraini rezvimwewo zvinhu, budisa foni yako ukumbire  kumutore pikicha. Wadaro chikasira kuitumira paTEXT kune umwe munhu waunoziva, wobva wamuudza kuti ngaasaramba achikuharasa.

Tataura hedu asi kune vakadziwo vakapfeka RING vanotonyengawo varume saka ngatisaita zvokupopotera varume kunge ndivo vega vane mhosva panyaya dzechihure. Kana wakambofamba nebhazi kumusha unotoziva kuti ukaterera nyaya dzevanhu vagere pasiti mberi kana shure unohwa vachitonyengana zvokutopanana manhamba efoni, mubhazi.

Saka apa ndiri kuti:
Kunyenga nokunyengwa zvinobva pa type yako iwe munhu.
Chokutanga kutariswa woonekwa kuti unonyengeka
Chechipiri kuti wanyengwa wosekerera kupa ENCOURAGEMENT kuna nyakunyenga. Kuzobva apa hapana chichanetsa, watova mhou/bhuru yemurume/mukadzi uyu.

Chinowanzoitisa munhu kunyenga/kunyengwa inguva yakawandisa usina chokuita.
Kumirira bhazi/chitima/ndege
Kufamba nechifambiso (zvikuru kufamba kunoitisa zemo nokuda kwe EXCITEMENT yokuona zvitsva)


Kozotizve zviri kuitika mumusoro wako zvinoti
Kuva kure newako wemumba
Kusava nezvaunoti izvi ndizvo zvakakosha muupenyu hwako.
Kushaya mufaro mumba mako
Kushaya rukudzo kumunhu wawakaroorana naye.
Kuda ADVENTURE asi usingazozivi kuti CONTROL yacho inofamba sei.
Kuva munhu akaroorana nomunhu ari pasi pako kana kuti ari pamsoro pako panyaya ye SOCIAL class. zvinoita kuti usaona muchato wako sechinhu chakakosha nokuti murume/mukadzi wako haanyatsi kukwana panzvimbo yaari.

Ukaona uchigaronyenga kana kunyengwa iwe uchifunga kuti hazvifariri, imbogara pasi ufunge kuti upenyu hwako chii chisina kunyatsomira zvakanaka. Unokwanisa kuchiona wochigadzirisa.

Kunyengwa nomunhu ari pamusoro
Kune vanhu vatinopa rukudzo gwakawandisa zvokuti pamwe akakubata zvokuisa ruoko pamafudzi unohwa pasina kana kuvhunduka nokuti unomutora sababa vako. Vanhu vakadai zviri nyore kuti akwanise kukubata ugozoona kuti nyaya yaipa iyo yatoipa kare.

Tinoona vakadzi vakawanda vanotambura pamoyo kana avata nomunhu wakaita toti
Mufundisi
Mukuru pabasa
Mupurisa auya kuzotsvaka munhu akakubata chubharo
Hama yomurume
Murume weshamwari wawajaira kutaura naye. 

Heart attack parhoji

Nyaya iyi Ndanyora nokuda kwe wandinoshanda naye akafigwa nomurume anyeba kuti ari kuenda Business trip ku France

Munhu ajaira kuvatana nmurume/mkadzi wake anokwanisa kuita maminutes kubva pa 5 kusvka pa 15 vaapindana. Panguva iyoyo moyo unowedzera kumhanya kwemoyo kubva pa 70 bpm (beats per minute) kusvika pa 130 bpm. Kan tikataisa apa tinoona kuti kumhanyisa ropa uku panguva iyi kunoitika kuvaviri ava vese.

Kana uri munhu akagwinya uye asina chigwere chemoyo, hapana chakaipa kuti muyo usvike pa 130 bpm. Knaukafunga kuchera tsime kana kuti kudzinganisa huku, moyo unokwanisa kupfuura 140 bpm asi pasna chinoitika.

Nyaya iri panondeyokuti heart attack dzakawanda dzinoitika kuvarume vati kurei, kazhinji vapfuura makore 45. Zvozoitikazve kuti vanhu vari muzera iri tikatarisa nyaya dzmari tinoona uti ndivo vane zera rine vanhu vane mari kupfuura mamwe mazera nokuti vanhu vashanda kwenguva yakareba uye vasvika pamusoro pekutambira kwavo. Toonazve kuti vanhu vasinei nkuchengetedza utano hwavo saka vakaanda vavo vanemadumbuzenene.  Varume vanoti akapfeka sutu ofamba nemateya dumbu rakarembera mberi. Mukadziwo anopfeka madhirezi echichembere obva afammba sedhadha.

Panguva iyi moyo unenge wakaremegwa nomuviri. Kuda kuita zvawaiita urimwana mudiki hazvichaiti.  Asi kan mari iri muhombodo zvinonetsa vamwe vedu kurega kutenga zvinhu zvavanoda kutenga. Zvimwe zvacho zvinotengwa mahure. Mahure pane mari akangoita senhunzi papamadhdhi embwa. Chero ukapfapfaidza poizeni ipapo, nhunzi inofa yazama.

Kuti munhu afe achikwirana nehurekadzi kana hure rume chinhu chamunowanzohwamukutaura kwevanhu voseka zvavo kunge kufa kwemunhu kusina basa, asi zvinoitika kune vakawanda. Vanhu vokuGermany vakamboongoroa nyaya iyi vakaona kuti unyaya inonakidza kutarisa. Vakatarisa varume vanofa ne heart attack parhoji mudzimba dzavo vakaona kuti havasviki 1% yevanhu vese vanofa ne heart attack munyika iyi.

Vakazotarisazve varume vanofa ne heart attack parhoji nehure kumba kwehure, mumota, kana kuhotera, vakaona kuti kana hure ari munhumudiki pamurume, varume vanofa pakadai vakawanda chose. Vakatarisazve vakaone kuti chinitisa heart attack pakadai iEXCITEMENT yezvinhu zviviri zvinoti hure zvozoti kusiyana kwenzvimbo yerhoji. Zvinhu zviviri izvi zvinoitisa rufu pavarume vakawanda vari muzera iri.

Hwisisai kuti kana ndichiti vakawanda zvinoreva kuti DTILL havasviki 5% yevanhu vanofa ne heart attack. Asi vakawanda kune avo vanofa neheart attack inokonzegwa ne rhoji. RRhoji yemumba kwahi haiurai vakawanda nokuti EXCITEMENT yayo ishoma pane yehure. Hazvirevi kuti mahure anogona basa kutipfuura asi kutimurume anenge achityakubatwa, kubata chigwere, kuonekwa nmunhu waanoziva, kutadza kugutsa hure, etc saka zvese izvi zvinopa EXCITEMENT.

Saka todii nenyaya iyi?

Kuziva izvi kunotdzidzisei panyaya dzedu dzomumba? Chokutanga ndechokuti murume/mukadzi akawanana noumwee munhu ngaasawana nguva yokuhura.

Chechipiri ndechokuti gara uchiziva kuti moyo wako uri kushanda zvakanaka here.

Chechitatu, chengetedza utano, zvkuita zidumbu uchiti nokuti Businessman wekwenyu ange akarembedza dumbu saka vanhu vakakuna wakadaro vanofunga kuti une mari handizvo.

Chechina, kana ukahwisisa kuti murume wako ane mari, chiona kuti iwe hauregi kufidha murume kusvika akora sehuku yemafidha. Chimwezve, garoenda naye kuTEST yokuonekwa kuti ane utano.

Chechishanu, chengeta murume panyaya dzokuvatana mumba, uye siyanisa nzvimbo dzamunoitira. Kubva pakuroorana kwenyu musati mava nevana jairai kuti pakaita mukana wekumbobva pamba muchiendawo kumwe, endai munorhojana ikoko. Mumba menyuwo imomo, nemera murume/mukadzi kusvika marhojana kana mugaraji chaimo.  Zvokungoti zuva nezuva pamubhedha bodo, handizvo. Mubhedha ndewekuvata hope.

Kufira pahure

Kuudzwa kuti murume wako afa uye afira kure nomusha wake chinhu chinogwadza chose nokuti wange usingachifungiri. Kuzoudzwa kuti afire pahure chinhu chisingatauriki magwadzire acho. Murume anenge atofa saka haukwanisi kumupopotera. Hure riya ratotiza saka haukwanisi kubvunza kuti zvaita sei, wauraya murume wangu sei. Unongochema wega. Kana vana vako haukwanisi kuvauudza kuti baba vafira pahure. Hama dzemurume unodziudza sei zvawaudzwa nemapurisa? Kuti uudze mai vake kuti mwana wenyu aurawa nehure kana iwe unozviona zvakaoma kuita.

Pozotizve kufunga kuti ange ane hure ini muridzindisina kumbomurambira kana musi umwe chete, woshaya kuti zvinorevei. Kuhama neshamwari dzokuchechi unodziudzei nokusvodesa kwenyaya iyi. Iye murume afa saka zvokusvoda haachinei nazvo. Iwe ndiwe wasara nenyaya yacho. Ndiwe ucharonga nehama dzake kuti anovigwepi uye zvinobhadhagwa nani.  Parufu uchaterera vanhu vachitaura nhema pamusoro pemurume wako kuti aiva munhu aida mhuri yake, aida mukadzi wake,  chii chii vachireva nhema iwe wakaterera uchiziva kuti unhema. Parufu haubvumigwi kutaura.

Kunozoti nyaya yotsvakwa nemapurisa ndipo panobuda makuhwa okuti akafira pahure. Vanhu vemuraini havakubvunzi. Vanongotaurirana pachavo voridza chikuwe kuseka. Hino iwe kuti uzive kuti vari kuseka iwe here kana murume wako hauchazivi pane nyaya.

Kana murume wako afire pahure, unoshaya konifidhenzi yokuzonyengwa noumwe murume, nokuda kwekuti hauhwisisi kuti chaakasvora paurii kusvika pakunotsvaka hure chii chaicho. Wokubvunza hapana saka uchafa usingazivi zvaiva mumoyo wemurume wako. 

Murume anoda iwe uri kumwedzi

Imbofungaiwo nevarume vanoti chero mukadzi ari kumwedzi anoda chete kurhoja.

Nyaya yokuti mukadzi ari kumwedzi asavata nomurume inonetsa kunyatsohwisisa kuti yakabvepi nokutii magadzirigwe akaita munhu kadzi ndeekuti kanna ari kumwedzi anoita zemo rakawedzeera asi ipapo asingadi zvokuvata nomurume. Zvoita sokuti pane nyaya inonetsa.

Kune vammwe vedu vanotenda zvinorebwa neBhaibheri. Rinotaura mubhuku ra Revhitiko 15 kubva pa vhesi ya 16-25 kuti nyaya iyi yakamira sei.

Kunohi kana munhurume akava nourume hwake pamuviri wakengaaende anogeza nemvura asi ageza kudaro achava munhu asina kuchena kusvika manheru.

Mukadzi kana akatanga kuva kumwedzi, zvese zvinhu zvaanoshandisa, paaagara, chaabata zvinova nesvina kwemazuva manomwe uye zvinofanira kugezwa kuti zvive zvakachena futi.  Pamazuva awa haafaniri kuvata nomurume. Kana murume akavata naye murume anoitsawo svina kwemazuva manomwe somukkadzi wake.

Totarisa kuti nyaya yomuBhaibheri yakanyogwa kare kare kupfuura 4000 years. Tochiendawo kumaitire edu isu vanhu veChiShona, tinoona kuti varungu vasati vauya neBhaibheri kwedu tange tine mitemo yakawanda pakuvatana kwedu. umwe mutem wacho wanga ui wekuti mukadzi kana ari kumwedzi murume wakehaabvumigwi kuvata naye. Ukaenda kuvanhu vasina zvavanotevera vakabvonyongedzwa maitire avo nokuti kwekuva nhapwa, vakaita sevekuJamaica ne zvitsuwa zvakatenderedza, uchaonazve kuti havabvumidzi murume kuvata nomukadzi arii kumwedzi.

Totarisazve vanhu vechiArabhu vanopinda chitendero che ISLAM. Mubhuku ravo rinohi Korani Mohamadhi akataura izvi panyaya iyi.

“They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore, keep away from women during menses”
[al-Baqarah 2:222] 

Zvioreva kuti nyika dzese dzinotenda zvakataugwa nomurume uyu mohamadhi, varume havabvumigwi kuvata nevakadzi vavo kana vaakadzi vari kumwedzi.

Ku India, vakadzi vechi Hindu kana ari kumwedzi haabvumigwi kuvata nomurume wake kwemazuva manna, uye haabvumigwi mukicheni munobikwa zvinodyiwa nemhuri. Haabvumigwi kuenda kuimba yokunamatira. 

Munyika inohi China vanhu vemovakawanda zvokuti asi vanodzidzisa kuti mukadzi ari kumwedzi haaabatwi nomurume.

America ne Canadda ne South america ne Australia ndadzisiiya nokuti vazhinji veko vakabva mumaitire echiKristu anobvuma zvinotaugwa neBhaibheri.


Saka zvakafamba sei kuti nyika dzese idzi dzisvike pkuwirirana kuti mukadzi kana ari kumwedzi haafaniri kuvata nomurume.? Kuti tidavire mubvunzo uyu ngationgorore kuti chii chinokwanisa kuti mukadzi ari kumwedzi asava munhu anokwezvera murume wake.

Chokutanga kumwedz kunogwadza vakadzi vakawanda, zvikuruvechidiki vasati vajaira.

Kumwedzi kunobudisa ropa kubva muchibereko. Ropa iri kutsukaa haro asi harisi ropa kwaro. Rinotyisa nokusemesa zvese.

Rinobuda zvokuudvuka panguva yarada zvokuti zvinokwanisa kuti murume ari mukati roti udvuu kubuda. Zvadaro hazvinakidzi kuva mur kuvatana.

Mukadziwo wemzuvano anokwanisa kunge ane PAD raakaisa mubhurugwa kutii asazvibisa dhirezi raakapfeka.  Kazhinji anoviga Pad iri kutimurume asariona nokuti rinosemesa isu vakadzi saka varume hameno kuti vangatodii nazvo.

Munhuwi unobvapo chero ukaswerogeza wakasiyana newamazuva ese, saka iwe muridzi unenge usina konfidhenzi nazvo.

Imwezve nyaya ndeyokuti urume hune ma HORMONES anokwanisa kuchinja pattern yokuenda kumwedzi kwako. muviri chinhu chakagadzigwa chine BALANCE isingafaniri kukanganiswa.

Saka ndiyo nyaya yokuhi hatibvumigwi kuvata nevarume kana tiri kumwedzi.

Mazuvano:
Mazuvano, zvikuru munyika dzakaita se Europe ne America ne Australia dzisisina chitendero, kune vanhu vanoti vakangohwa kuti kune chinhu chinosemesa, votogwinyira ichocho vogadzidzira mafiriimu azvo votengesa. Hino kwedu kuZimbabwewo kune vanhu vanoti vakangohwa kuti chinhu chokuti chakaitwa kunyika idzi, votofunga kuti chinhu chakanaka, voitawo. MaZimba tinokopera zvose zvose rinova dambudziko kuzvinhu zvakawanda tichiverenga nezvemumba. Dzimwe tsika dzedu tobva tasiya.

Saka unokwanisa kuti waita mukomana wozoona kutimunhu anodda zvokuvatana chero iwe uri kumwedzi. Unozvifambisa sei pakadai? Isu takagadzirigwa kuda kufadza varume vedu. Ukaita murume anoda zvausingadi uchaona kuti kukapera kanguva achikuudza kuti anozvida, uchapedzisira wazvidawo iwe.  Usati wabvuma, hwisisa kutii dambudziko chairo riri papi

Kana watanga kuenda kumwedzi mukati mechitubu PH yamo inokwira nokuti ACID inodzikira. ma Bateria anosidzivirigwa anobva akkwanisa kurarama mukati.

Panguva iyi chibereko chinowedzera kudzika zasi uye kuvhurika, muromo wechibereko unohi CERVIX woshama kuti ropa ribude. zvakadaro mukati mechibereko madziro anobva opwanyika oita ropa rinova ndiro rinobuda kuti uve kumwedzi. Zvinoreva kuti madziro awa basa rawo harina anoita kwenguva yokumwedzi iyi. Tinoziva kuti madziro awa anodzivirira zvigwere uye anochengetedza uutano hwechibereko.

Ukapinzwa chombo panguva iyi zvinokwanisika kuti chombo ichi chinge chine ma bacteria (utachiona) anopinzwa muchitubu chisina PH yakanaka, MaBacteria aya obva akwanisa kusvika kuchibereko nyaya yako yobva yatokusvitsa pakaoma, zvikuru kana uchiri munhu wechidiki anoda vana.

Nguva yokumwedzi haisi nguva yokuvata nomurume. Kana wada kubatsiira murume wako verenga pakahi zvokuita kana uri kumwedzi. Apa panokuudza mukana wekubatsira murume wako.

http://maichibwe.blogspot.co.uk/2012/06/zvokuita-kana-uri-kumwedzi-murume.html

Ko kana achingoda chete kupinza chombo pakadaro?
Kana une murume asinei nazvo iwe ukaona kuti nyaya yenyu yatonetsa zvokuti unotsamwigwa kana ukasamurega achipinza, chienda unotenga makondomu apfeke kuti usawana mukana wekubata zvigwere zvinokanisa kusvika kumusoro uko kuchibereko.

Vamwe varume havanei nokuti mukadzi wake munhu anofanira kugara ane utano.Anongoda chete kupinza chombo chero zvodii. haatombozivi kuti zvinei newe muridzi wechitubu. anoona sokuti ndechake saka paadira anoita. Kusiri kuti hatidi kuti adaro asi kuti kana ndiri kumwedzi murume ngaasandiitira ma Moods nokuti handikwanisi kumupa twake. Ndakatovinga iye chete kwete umwe munhu saka chokumurambira handina.

Wiriranai pakutaura iwe womuudzawo kuti CULTURE yako haibvumiri zvakadai saka kana achida rubatsiro ngaabvise bhurugwa iwe umubatsire asi kupinza bodo.


Pane mishonga here kana murume achidaro? 
Vanhu vakangoona munhu anoita zvakasiyana navo vanobva vaofunga kuti ane mishonga yechivanhu inomuitisa izvi. Vayavo vanotengesa mishonga vakangoziva kuti uri fuza vanokutengesera mishonga yavo yenhema vobva vakupa imwe TASK isingati kuti unoita ugofunga kuti zvinoshanda chimwe chinhu nokuti hazvisi NORMAL. Murume wako anogona kuva akamboenda kuvatengesi vemishonga akaudzwa kuti avate nomukadzi ari kumwedzi kuti mushonga ushande.

Chokwadi chaicho ndechokuti hakuna mushonga uri pakuvata nomukadzi ari kumwedzi. hakunazve mushonga unopengesa murume wako kuti ade kuvata newe uri kumwedzi. Murume wako munhu anobatira zemo rake pamusoro zvobva zvasangana nougino hwake kana hwako panyaya yacho, kana kusava nehanya noutano hwako kwake. Ndiyo nyaya chete. Mushonga hapana.

Kana azobvuma kuti hamuiti, iwewo chiona kuti unomubhadhara zvakakwana pamazuva ausiri kumwedzi.

Kana wabva kumwedzi
Pakupedza hwisisa kuti mange muri pangva yokuparadzana saka usamirira kubvunzwa kuti wapedza here. Iwe muridzi ndiwe unotaura wega kuti wadzoka mumba yokuvata kwawanga uri kwapera, Wochitanga kukwezva murume kuti muchidzokera pazviitwa zvenyu. Pane umwe mwedzi waunoita mazuva akawanda kupfuura aunosiita, kozoita umwe waunoita mashoma. Zaka murume akagara aziva kuti kana wapedza unomuudza, anomirira kuudzwa. Kumuudza kunoratidzawo kuti unohwisisa kuti nguva yokumirira kwake ingiuva yaasingadi.

Udzai Vamwe !!!!!!!. 

Hasha, ganyabvu, sipidhi zvinobvepi pabasa iri

Ko seiko tichiona kutipamwe murume anoda kurhoja zvine hasha mukati kuita sokuti haasi mumba make kana kuti nguva yokuita ishoma, asi ipapo muri mumbba mennyu uye hapana chokumhanyira? Mu PSYCHOLOGY yevarume uye yemhuka dzakawanda, unoona kuti rume ddzinoda kukasira kupedza kuita sokuti pane kutyya kuti hadzii dzingangotiza kana kuti dzimwe rume ddinouya kuzobvonyonga zviitiko.  Kuvanhu zvinohi ukaona murume ava kuma 30 chakuti akunyenga iwe ukamuda ukazoti maroorana oti akavata newe oita 2 minutes, ziva kutimunhu ange ajaira kuita rhoji yokuba saka haadi kunonoka. Sokuti munhu anonorhojana nomunhu muimba isrii yake, kana mumakwenzi anoda kukasira kuti akasire kubuda mumba iyi vanhu vasawana achirimo.

Kana ukaona une murume akadai anoita miniti imwe chete kana mbiri, iwe ndiwe unotofanira kumudzidzisa kuti zvinobhowa zvakadii. Kana wazvipira kumudzidzisa, chitanga nokumurega achipinza. achingoti pindei iwe chiwana mukana wekumukoira kaviri chete wobva wasimuka womuudza kuti wanakigwa uye watopedza. Ukadaro kaviri achagumbuka zvokuti. iwe chimuudza kuti ngaazvipedzise nemaoko sezvaunoitawo iwe mazuva ese.  Chimugarisa pasi umuudze kuti ndizvo zvaanokuita mazuva ese uye unogumbukaw sezvaaita saka yoitwa sei nyaya. 

Kozotizve vanhu mukutaura kwedu tinoshandisa mavara ehashha kkana tichitaura nyaya yerhoji. Uyezvee tinoita sokutivakadzi ma VICTIM erhoji varume ndivo varidzii verhoji.

Akaiswa mimba

Akavhugwa makumbo

Akakwigwa

Ndakamurova nyoro

Ndakamufongoresa

Chero ukaenda kunyika ipi zvayo ukaterera mataurire anoita varume nemavara avanoshandisa, unoona kuti mufungwa dzavo vanofunga kuti ndivo vanoita zvinhu kuvakadzi. Vakadzi vanoitwa chete. Kashoma kuhwa murume achitaura kuti iye nomukadzi wake vakaita ichi kana icho pamwe chete. Maonere evarume mukadzi anoitwa nomurume. Iye zvokuti mukadzi anenge achiitei ipapo hazvina basa. 

Ipapa ndipo panobva kusava nehanya nokuti mukadzi anakigwawo here kana kwete. Kunongohi chero ini ndamukwira chete ndizvo zvine basa. Kuti udzidzise murume kuti abve pamafungire iwawo zvinotora nguva nokuti anenge asingatomboni kuti uri kuzama kumuudza chii chacho.

Varume vashoma vanooona sokuti kuvatana chinhu chine runako (beautiful thing) chokuti ukasapa umwe zvakanaka chinokanganisika. Hakuna murume ane mavara ane rukudzo okutaura nyaya yokuvatana. akawana ndeekushora chete. chero muchirungu. 

Shaft her, screw her, fu** her, give her one, do her, hit it, give her a beef injection, bob her, pock her, flagpole her, humb her. 

what kind of words are these to ddescribe such a beeautiful activity? 

Tererai anomukadzi wake vakakumbira uti tinovayananisa isu ndokuendako. Tiri pakudya ini ndokutanga nyaya yacho kuti dambudziko riri papi. Murume ndokutanga kutaura kuti mukadzi wake ane zvese zvaanoda asi anongokomburena chete kuti hazvina kukwana. Pakubvunzwa kuti zvaanazvo zvacho zviiko, kwahi imba anayo, mwana ndakamuzvarisa, ndinomukwira 5-7 times pavhiki, mari ndinomupa even iye achishanda achitambirawo yake. 

Tobvunzawo mukadzi kuti koiwe sei uchikomburena iwe uchiwana zvese izvi. Muadzi oti zvese anazvo asi anodawo murume anoziva kuti ane maNEEDS pakunovata.

Ava vanhu vaviri vasingatombohwisisani kuti chii chiri kuitika. Murume anoona sokuti mukadzi anonetsa uye haatendi asi zvese zvinodiwa zviripo. Pamwe anotudza shamwari dzake kubasa kuti vakadzi havahwisisiki, kwahi  chero ukamupa zvese anongokunetsa chete.

Mukadziwo anotoshamisika kuti murume uyu pakutaurirana anti anomuda asi pazviito anoita seasingambofungi nezvake, inyaya yei? Nyaya iri pamaonero anoita varume kana vachitarisa vakadzi. Murume achitarisa mukadzi haaoni munhu mukuru ane fungwa uyeanofunga zvinhu zvakafanana nezvaanofunga iye. Anongoona munhu akamutakurira chitubu, matinji, mazamu, magaro, zvinhu zvokuti iye agotambisa paadira, uya nyakutakura asinei nezviri kuitika.

Maonere awa ndiwo anoitisa kuti uwane varume vanoti akabvisigwa bhurugwa nomukadzi akawana mukadzi akanyorova, unoona omhanya paInternet kunopopota ipapo kwahi mukadzi uyu haanaki nokuti ange ari mvura yega yega. Dai ange asina kunyorova akagwadziwa paanopinzwa chombo, waiihwa murume wacho oti akanakigwa nazvo.

Kuva mhunhu akanyorova kwaita kuti mukadzi anakigwevo iuye asagwadziwa asi murume haazvidi izvozvo, nokuti mukadzi anofanira kungonakira murume iye asinei nazvo.

Ukaenda kunyika dzokumusoro kweAfrica, unowana vakadzi vakachekwa bhinzi vari vana vadiki, zvadaro chitubu chosonwa kuti chivharike kungosara kaburi kadikidiki kokuenda kumwedzi nako. Mukadzi akadai paanokura owanikwa, murume wacho ndipo paanotogwinyirira kupinza ipapo pasingakwani chombo. Pedzezvo ozviroova dundundu kwahi ndanakigwa nomukadzi. Ipapo mukadzi ange ane misodzi nguva yese.

Mafungire evarume panyaya yevakadzi anotoshamisa. Unoona murume mumba achiita sokuti ndiCommander wehondo kana achitaura nomukadzi wake. Unobva waona kuti mukadzi haana VALUE kumurume wake. 

Kana uchida kupokana nomurume wako nokukasira, muitire zvaanokuitira iwe. Uchaona kuti zvinokasira kumubhowa. Musi waanoda iye iwe ukamuudza kuti hausi kuda, inoita nyaya huru zvokuti unokwanisa kugariswa dare. Makamiririra kuenda kudare anokubata ganyabvu iota zvaanoda. Ukaita nharo anokudza kuti muchato wapera nokuti hauna kuraigwa natete vako.

Asi iwe musi waunoda iye asingadi hakuna dare raunokwanisa kuenda ukanogarisa. Anotokuseka kwahi unoda kuiswa kupfuura hure. Asi ipapo akakurira mumhuri inpinda chechi woshaya kuti zvechihure akazvionera kupi.

Mukadzi waKoni paaimboshanda 93 hours per week kuti mhuri iwanewo mari yerent neyechikafu, aiti paanosvika kumba anowana murume agere zvake achiona TV, pane kuti dai achifilla maform ekutsvaka basa.  Zvadaro pakunovata kwahi rega ndikukwire. Vaipopotedzana mukadzi ichiti akaneta murume asingahwisisi. Akazoti amuwanirawo basa ku CARE home kwake ndokumuendesa kuTRAINNG ndokupiwawo ake maShift, mukadzi aiti akati ngatidai murume oramba.

Varume vakawanda vanofunga kuti AUTHORITY yavo inobva pakuti ane chombo. Kana wamupa CHALLENGE pamafungire ake azvoreva kuti wapa CHALLENGE kuchombo chake saka anofanira kukukaurisa nokukuyeuchidza kuuti urume mumb ndeupi, zvoreva kukurjja chero uchida chero usingadi. Unohwamunhu ava kukuudza kuti akabhadhara roora, AS if wanga usingazvizivi, isi iwe waitoripo paaibhadhara pacho. Ndiwe wakatoudza tete kuti vaudze hama kuti deredzai roora ndiende.

Hakuna mukadzi asingazivi kuti murume wak ane chombo. Asi chobomumba ngachinakire tese tiri vaviri. Iniwo ndine change chandinogonawo kukuyeuchidza kuti ndinacho. Ndinokwanisawo kungoita chikomba sezvaunogonaw kuita hure.

AUTHORITY yemurume anotoipiwa nomukadzi wake. Kwahi shamwari ndodawo uite murume wangu ugorhojana neni, tigoita vana vedu, tigere zvakanaka. Authority iri mufungwa dzemukadzi kwete muchombo chomurume. Iwe murume ukaona mukadzi wako oisa CHALLENGE, zviri nani kugarisa mukadzi wako pasi wobvunza kuti zvaita sei Mai Chimwana, motaurirana.

Rhoja mukadzi wako une fungwa yokutimuri kuita zvinhu zvamunoda mese uye mese munofanira kuguta.

Gara nomukadzi wako mumba une fungwa yokuti munhu mukuru ane fungwa inoshanda seyako. Zvehasha handizvo zvinovaka. Kana asingadi rhoji, rega avate.

Kana akuti pinza ita zvaareva asi terera zvaanoda utore nguva muchiita.

Imbopawo AUTHORITY yezvekurhojana mumba kumukadzi wako aitewo mambokadzi mumba make. Iye ndiye achadzosa kwauri mofara mese. 

Zveganyabvu nehasha nokukasirira mukadzi, zvinobva pa PRIMITIVE instinct dzevarume dziri muropa. Iwe somurume akadzidza, fadza mukadzi wako.


Udzaii vamwe!!!!

Nyaya yokurjojana umwe wenyu ari muhope

Pene varume vanoti kaita zemo pakati peusiku mukadzi avete hope, haamumutsi asi anongomusudurusa kuti awane mukana wekupinza chombo. Adaro anobva angozvibatsira kusvika pakupedza, mukadzi avete hope chaidzo. Pamwe mukadzi anopepuka murume ari pakati vongozopedza vakadaro.

Poitazve mukadzi anoti akapepuka akawana murume akamira chombo ogadziridza murume kusvika zvaita kutii apinze chombo obva atobatsira murume wake kusvika vapedza. Ipapo murume anokwansawo kupepuka kana kungopedza avete.

Vanhu tinoita zemo nguva dzakasiyana siyana zvichibva nokuti chii chiri kuitika mufungwa. Zemo rinotanga mufungwa. Fungwa hairari kana iwe uri kuhope saka unongoramba uchifunga zvakawanda uye zvimwe zvinoitisa zemo. Zvinoita kuti munhukadzi kana munhurume aite zemo avete hope. agopinza/nzwa chombo agotadza kupepuka asi achitonakigwa sezvaanongoita asina hope.

Varume vanohi vanomira zvombo zvavo kasere kana kupfuura usiku avete. Vakawanda vanotomira chombo avete kupfuura zvaanoita masikati akasvinura. Zvinohi izvo kana murume achiri wechidiki, toti pasi pemakore 35, anokwanisa kuti pamwe akamira chombo usiku avete anobva atokoira machira kusvika pakubudisa urume, ipapo avete hope chaidzo dzokuti hapana chaanomboziva kuti chaitika kusvika amuka mangwana.

Vakadzivo tinokwanisa kutorota uchipinzwa chombo uchitonakigwa nazvo kusvika pakuita ORGASM asi uvete hope chaidzo. poitazve imwe nguva younongoita zemo uvete zasi kwese kutonyorova kutovhinza chaiko asi iwe wakatofa hako nehope. Pamwe unongozomuka wakanyorova asi usina rangariro yokuti wakamboita zemo. pamwe unopepuka uri pakati pokunakigwa wobva waziva kuti wange uchirota. Pamwe kurota kwacho unotonyatsoona murume achikuvhura makumbo opinza chombo uchitohwa chichipinda wotobatirira muchiisana.

Kurota kwakadai ndiko kunoitisa kuti vamwe vafunge kuti panenge pane munhu chaiye ane mushonga wekuti usapepuka. Iri ngari yokuti chiroto chako chinenge chichingoita sezvinoitika muchiisana masikati. 

Zviitiko zvousiku izvi zvakasiyana siyana kuvanhu asi vakawanda vedu vanozviita, uye zvinoitika munyika dzakawanda kwete yedu chete. Hapana chakaipa pazviri. Kunyika zhinji, zvikuru dzokuAfrica, nedzechiArabhu, kuti mukadzi azikamwe kuti anofarira kugaroiswa nomurume, zvinoonekwa sokuti mukadzi iyeye anokwanisa kuzosvika pakuhura. Ku North Afrika vanosvika pakucheka bhinzi yemukadzi kuti asagaroita zemo.

Kwedu ku SOUTHERN AFRICA hakuna chinoitwa asi kungoti unogaroudzwa kuti murume anoda rhoji mukadzi anomirira kuti murume ade rhoji iye ozodawo. Izvo zvakaitigwa kudzvanyirira vanhukadzi panyaya iyi nokuti zvakaonekwa kuti vakadzi tikaudza murume pese pese patadira rhoji, varume vedu hapana chingaitwa zuva rese murume achingoswerorhoja mukadzi.  Vakadzi vakawanda vanoda rhoji kupfuura varume, zvikuru nenyaya yokuti vanoona sokuti rhoji norudo zvinoenderana. Kuvarume, rhoji irhoji, rudo rudo, zvinhu zvakatosiyana zvokuti murume akabvisigwa bhurugwa nomukadzi waasangana naye pa BUS STOP chaipo, anorhoja ozofunga nazvo apedza. Zvinoita sokuti varume vanotungamirigwa nechombo asi kana murume ava mumba mukadzi arimo nguva yese, zvokurhoja haachadi kuwanza.

Zvinohi izvo, vakadzi fungwa dzavo dzine purogiramu yokungoda kufadza murume zvokuti chero mukadzi avete haakangamwi kufadza murume. Zvinoonekwa kuti pakuvata kwemukadzi nomurume vagara nguva yakati kuti vari vese, toti vhikimbiri kana kupfuura, mavatire avo anoenderana zvokuti ukavatarisa usiku hwese vavete uchaona kuti kazhinji vanotanga kuvata vakatarisana kuti vaite nyaya. Vapedza nyaya vanotanga kubatana batana kusvika vakwidza zemo vopedzisira varhojana umwe ari pamusoro peumwe.

Vadaro vanovata nedivi rimwe chete kureva kuti umwe ari mberi kweumwe uye akafuratira ari shure. Miviri yavo inenge yakangoradzikwa zvakafanana. Kana vakachinja divi rokuvata naro , kunotanga umwe, umwe obva ateverawo voita kanguva vachifakanyika kugadziridza mavatire vobva vavata umwe mberi umwe shure.

Kunohizve kana wajaira kuvata nomurume unomuvhurira makumbo kakawanda usiku usingazivi kuti ndizvo zvawaita. Toti murume avete shure kwako, Unokwanisa kungoshanyarika wovata nomusana wotokwidza rimwe gumbo pamusoro pemurume, kureva kuti watovhurira murume asi mese muvete hope chaidzo.

Zvinohi nevakaita RESEACH dzacho, kana paya murume akanonoka kuuya kuzovata asi muri vanhu vakajairira kuti pakunovata munombovatana, paanopinda mumachira, kana pasina dzimwe nyaya dzokutukana, mukadzi anomugamuchira nokumuvhurira makumbo asi avete hope. Akapinzwa chombo ipapo kana ange akanyorova, anozopepuka murume okoira zvine simba. Murume akakoira zvisina simba, mukadzi anokwanisa kutorota achiiswa agokwanisa kuita ORGASM nokuti fungwa yake inenge iri pakuiswa, asi ari kuhope.

Vese vane varume vanoziva kuti pane musi waakafuma achibvunza murume kuti "Wakandiisa ndivete here madeko?" nokuti anozopepuka panochururuka urume hwobuda muchitubu. Kana murume akavata nedivi akakutarisa, iwe uvete nomusana, ukasimudza gumbo riri kudivi romurume ukariturika kuseri kwake, anokwanisa kukupurudzira pamberi zvokuti unoita zemo ugonyorova nokukasira nokuti ndiwe watanga nyaya, iye anopinza nyore. Maitire awa anoita murume apinde zvakadzika. Vane varume vanoziva kuti zvinoitika chose uye murume anotozokuudza kuti waitochemerera uvete.

Ukazoramba wakavata nemanhede kudai urume hunochururuka hokutekenyedza pakati pemagaro zvokuti unokwanisa kupepuka. Pamwe unongopepuka wanyorova pakati pemakumbo. Pamwe unozozviona mangwana kuti wakaiswa uvete.

Ndiwo maitire avakaroorana kana vanobikisana mapoto. Chifunga kuti kazhnji murume akati rebei kupfuura mukadzi wake, uye mukadzi ane magaro makuru kupfuura emurume wake, Kana vavete, mukadzi ari mberi kwemurume, mukadzi akagonyesa mabvi zvishoma, murume otevedzerawo izvozvo, chombo chikamira murume avete, chinenge chakatorurama pachitubu kare. Chinongozodiwa kuti chipinde kuti mukadzi akanyorova here uye kuti asimudzire gumbo zvishomanana.

 Mukadzi wese ane murume anoziva kuti kakawanda unopepuka uchiwana murume akati twii avete zviri pedo newe. Ipapo kupepuka kwako kwaitiswa nokugogonegwa nechombo kumagaro.  Mukadzi anokwanisa kupinza ega murume avete. Wadaro ukangoshinya chombo kaviri kana katatu nemasuro yechitubu, unohwa murume ototanga kukoira avete.  Pakadai kazhinji murume haaiti nguva asina kukudiridzira, saka kana uchidawo kunakigwa pinza murume ugomumutsa kuti muisane makasvinura mese.

Kana wapepuka murume amire chombo, kungosuduruka woruramisa wosimudzira gumbo wotohwa godyo, chapinda,wochitotanga kuchigamuchira. Vamwe vanoti ukaziva kuti murume avete, usamumutsa. ingotabisa chiuno kukwizirira chombo. Murume anokwanisa kukudiridzira ari muhope. Anokwanisa kutorota achirhoja. Apazve panohi munhu waanorota achiita naye anokwanisa kuva mukadzi wake, mukadzi asina kumeso, kana kuti umwe munhu waanotoziva. Kwahi ukamumutsa anokwanisa kurotomoka.


Dzimwe nguva vese vavete asi kuhope ikoko umwe anopinza chombo vovata vakapindana kudaro.

Chinongozonetsa ndechokuti kana chombo chiri mukati Panoita INSTINCT yokuda kukoira. Asi zvinoita kuti kukoira kwacho kwehope kunenge kusina ganyabvu mukati zvokuti haupepuki. Ukazorota uchirhojana noumwe wako ORGASM hainonoki nokuti muhope unenge wakatorerusa muviri uye muhope hauzivi kuti zvatora nguva yakadii. Pamwe unokwanisa kurota uchirhojewa asi vanoziva vanoti mukurota umu, unokwanisa kurota murume wako, murume asina kumeso,kana umwe munhu wausina kumbofungira kuti ungada kuti akurhoje. Mangwana acho unomuka wakaeredza urume zvokuti unongoziva kuti chii chakaitika uvete.

Ukabvunza vanhu vakaroorana unohwa vokuudza kuti zvokuisana vavete hope zvakaitika kakawanda kumba kwavo. Kana mukavata hope musina bopoto mumba menyu zvinowedzera kuitika zvikuru kana muchigaroisana kakawanda. Kana umwe ari munhu anonakigwa chaizvo nerhoji, anokasira kupepuka mozopedza akasvinura.

Vanhu vakawanda vanovatana kuhope, zvikuru kana vari vanhu vanovimbana. Kunozoti mada nyaya yokushandisa makondomu kuti mukadzi asaita mimba. Ndipo paunovata fungwa iri pakusaita mimba saka zvokurhojana hazvisi mumusoro. Murume akakumisira chombo unopepuka  kana okusimudza gumbo kuti apinze chombo. Zvinhu izvi zvinoenderana nokufunga kwako wakasvinura.

Chiziva kuti hausirii wega uri kurhojewa uvete hope. Vese vane varume/vakadzi zvinoitika kwavari umwe musi. 

Panyaya idzi ndipo pamunohwa vanhu vachiti kune zvakawanda zvinoitika pavanhu kana vavete. Kune vanotaura kuti kune vanhu vane mushonga wekupinda mudzimba dzevanhu vachirhepa vakadzi vevanhu pasina anomuka. Tichida kutaura chokwadi, zvinoitika hazvo asi hazvineii nomushonga. Mushonga unohi mubhobhobho. chokwadi chaicho hakuna. Asi kuti mbavha inopinda mumba yowana muridzi avete, yorhepa muridzi wacho, iye achipepuka kana kusapepuka. zvinoitika.

Vanhu vakawanda tinotya kufunga zvinhu zvinokwanisika kuitika tivete hope. Saka chinhu chiri nyore kutyisidzira vanhu nenyaya yokuti pane munhu ane mubhobobho anokwanisa kukurhepa uvete ukasambomuka. Tinohwazve zvohi kune munhu anoshanda kuSauth Africa asi achinovata kuMouth Darwin nomukadzi wake. Ipapo anongofambira rhoji zuva nezuva. Asvika kumusha kwake haamhoresi hama dzake, anongoda kusvikorhoja mukadzi wake, obva adzokera kubasa. Vanhu taurai henyu nhema dzakadai asi zivai kuti inhema. Dai dzisi nhema da varume vese vanozvigona vaiita mudungwe kundorhoja  umwe mukadzi anohi Giresi ane murume achembera zvokuti anozikamwa kuti rhoji anoida.

Ko kana mukadzi asina kunyorova murume angakwanisa here? 
Mukadzi akaita zemo akashaya wekutamba naye kubvisa zemo, anokwanisa kutora nguva yakareba akangonyorova. okwanisazve kuita imwe nguva yezemo achakanyorova kudaro. Zvoramba zvichingoenderera mberi kusvika kwaedza. Kazhinji paunomuka mangwanani unenge wakanyorova zvokuti murume akada kupinza anopinza zvisingambogwadzi.

Koitazve nyaya yokuti zvinohi vakadzi kana vavete vanongofungawo zverhoji sezvinoita varume. Murume anomira chombo paAVERAGE ye 8 times avete. Mukadziwo anohi anonyorova kusvika pa Average ye 5 Times avete. Apa tiri kutaura munhu avete ega. Tikazoti munhu avata asina kupfeka ane murume, vachikwizirana muviri nokudziisana vavete kudaro, hazvinetsi kuhwisisa kuti zemo rokuhope rinoitika kakawanda zvinoreva kuti unonyorova.

Kozotizve murumewo kana akachenjera anombopurudzira pamberi kwekanguva mukadzi avete, iye asati ada zvokupinza. Kana munhu avete, murume/mukadzi, anokasira kuiita zemo kana akabatwa zvakanyorovera.  Kana zviya ukapepuka murume wako avete achitoridza magwiriri, ukamupurudzira chombo kana pakati pemusana nemagaro, zvinyoronyoro, anokasirsa kumira chombo chero asina kumuka. Mukadziwo ukapurudzigwa pamberi zvikuru pedo nebhinzi, unokasira kunyorova. Murume akazoda zvokupinza ngaasaita zvehasha.  ngaapinzewo zvinyoronyoro, adaro ombomira akadaro chitubu chichijaira kuva nechinhu mukati. Paanozotanga ngaatange nesipidhi iri pasi pasi kuti zvapindana zvijairane.

Kune vakaenda ku Boarding School munoziva zvaiitika kana wada kutsvinyira umwe, taiti ukatora munhenga weshiri, woti zviya kuchipisa vamwe vavete vakashama vakarasha machira, wopurudzira pakati pemakumbo kana agaro, woona munhu wozviwetera, mangwana tomuseka.

Ukabatwa zvakanaka unokwanisa kurerusa muviri kupfuura zvaunoita uvete, wobva wato rerusa zvokuti chombo chinopinda nyore.


Udzai Vamwe!!!!!!
kuiswa wakadhakwa 
Wakadhakwa 
Uvete hope
Uri kuhope. 
Kuiswa usingafungiri
Kungoerekana waiswa

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Imboverenga nyaya idzi

Russian woman brutally rapes burglar for three days non-stop

posted in reply to "women cant rape"

A hairdresser from the small Russian town of Meshchovsk has subdued a man who tried to rob her shop, and then fed him viagra & raped him unprotected for three days in the utility room.

She chained Viktor to the radiator with pink furry handcuffs and fed him Viagra.

She eventually let the man go on Monday.

Viktor was rushed to hospital as his genitals were injured. Life.ru reports...

http://russiatoday.ru/Top_News/2009-...html?fullstory

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Burglar broke into house, raped student as she slept by her boyfriend, and attacked two other women the same night

·        Rape victim briefly woke up and 'felt a man's arms around her and thought it was her boyfriend'

·        Boyfriend awoke to find the rapist still in bed next to them and chased him out the flat before calling police

·        Cat burglar sexually assaulted three women in one night after creeping over roofs to break into houses

By SUZANNAH HILLS
UPDATED: 16:20, 20 January 2012

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Rapist: Travis Gotting was branded 'unpredictable and volatile' by a judge after sexually assaulting three women

A cat burglar sexually assaulted three young women in a night of terror after creeping along rooftops to break into their homes, a court heard.

Travis Gotting, 20, broke into two different student houses where he sexually assaulted the young women and stole items from around their apartments.

Reading Crown Court heard he even started having sex with one of the women as she lay sleeping with her boyfriend lying next to her in bed before the couple awoke and chased him from their home.

Gotting was yesterday told by a judge that he was 'unpredictable and volatile' and will serve a minimum of four years in prison for the public's protection before he can be considered for release.

The court was told Gotting, from Shinfield, Reading, who admitted burglary, rape and sexual assault, had been seen clambering over the rooftops of homes in an area popular with students studying at Reading University.

He then climbed into one flat through an unsecured window and sneaked into the second floor bedroom of a 20-year-old student as she slept following a heavy night out.

Prosecutor Sandra Beck said: 'She became aware of someone saying to her "hello baby". She had gone to bed alone.

'She felt hands upon her, she felt the person touch her under her pyjamas.'

The startled victim woke up and ordered Gotting out of her room. Gotting then crept into the room of her 20-year-old flatmate, who lay asleep in bed with her boyfriend.

Miss Beck added: 'She awoke and felt a man’s arms around her and thought it was her boyfriend.

'She was half asleep and thought no more of it.

'She had a recollection of having sex from behind and at some point she fully woke up and her recollection was that there was a stranger between them.

'Gotting got up and said something about being in "Dave’s house". Her boyfriend chased him out and called the police.'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2089303/Rapist-broke-house-sex-woman-20-slept-boyfriend.html

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Kwedu zvinoitikawo izvi, kungosiyana maitikire azvo chete. Kana wajaira kuvata nomurume/mukadzi unokwanisa kuvatana noumwe munhu ukasamboziva kuti chii chaitika. Zvikuru isu vakadzi tinongopinzwa chombo tivete nomurume. Chinhu chinofadza hacho asi zvinokwansika kuti mbavha inozviitawo iwe ugofunga kuti murume wako ari kuita

Nyaya yema -RHAUNDHI

Ukahwa varume vachitaurirana nezvemaRHAUNDHI ungatofunga kuti chinhu chacho chinohi RHAUNDHI chinhu chinoshamisa asi ukazobvunzisisa unohwisisa kuti RHAUNDHI zvinoreva nguva yemurume, kubva paanopinza chombo mumukadzi wake kusvika paanpedza kudiridzira.

Ukahwa murume anotaura nezvema RHAUNDHI ziva kuti murume wacho haanatsi kuhwisisa kuti chii chinonakira mukadzi wake panyaya idzi. Anofunga kuti kuwanza maRHAUNDHI ndiko kunonaka. Unotohwa murume mukuru achitaura ne Konifidhenzi kuti "Ndakamurova maRHAUNDHI matatu ndikafara zvokuti."

Mufungwa make anototi mukadzi akanakigwa nazvo chero RHAUNDHI imwe yange iri maminitsi maviri kana matatu. Anofunga kuti kushaisa mukadzi hope usiku hwese ndiko kunonaka. Kufunga kwakadai kunoitiswa nokusaziva mafambire ezemo remukadzi. Pakurhojewa, mukadzi anorhojewa kuti zemo ripere. Hino kana ukahi minuti imwe chete kana mbiri, wodiridzigwa, wohi chimirira maawa maviri uchingonetseka nezemo, wapinzwazve wodiridzigwa kwapera maminitsi maviri, wohi chimirira futi, Zemo ipapo raperera papi. Zvinototsamwisa pane kunaka. Hakuna mukadzi angatoti arhojewa pakadai. Kana murume achida kuzvinyebera kuti agona basa, regai azvinyebere hake asi chokwadi chiri pachena kuti zvaiva nani kuti dai asina kutombotanga basa raasingagoni. Apa angozviitira iye, mukadzi zvatomusembura.

Hino akazodai zuva nezuva, uripo mukadzi unoti uchamuudza nhema, newewo wongopedzisira woramba kuvata naye. Kwahi na Sisiria akandinyorera nenyaya yake pakupihwa rhoji yemaRHOUNDHI kwahi, "Ndakapedzisira ndonyebera murume kuti ndiri kumwedzi asi ndapedza kare, apa ndaona kuti chandiri kunetsegwa hapana. Asi ndakashaya kuti ndoudza murume sei kuti aite basa zvakanaka nokuti tange tagarisa ndichingoshandiswa seizvi ndakanyarara."

Murume waSisiriya akazowana basa kuKadoma ndokusiya mukadzi nevana kumusha. Kwahi zvave nani nokuti anouya kumusha kaviri pamwedzi ozoita hake zvemaRHOUNDHI zvake izvozvo odzokera.

Varume hameno kuti sei musingatereri. Nguva yaunopedza uri mukati uchikoira mukadziwo achikupa chikapa ndiyo inonaka kwete kuti wamudiridzira kangani. Kumukadzi zviri nani kupinzwa woshandwa kwe10 minutes plus, wohwiswa pane moyo, mobatwa nehope mese movata. Kana murume wacho zvokukumukira usiku haambozozviiti. Kana ngonono chaidzo haaridzi. Iwewo unovata hope dzakanaka. Kana une murume akadai, hwisisa kuti musati mavata wodzima zvinhu zvingaitisa moto mumba nokuti chero ikatsva haumuki.

Kunotozoti kwaedza ndipo paunohwa murume opfakanyika. Murume akadai haumbohwi achitaura nezvemaRHAUNDHI. Mukadzi wakewo haumuhwi achiita zvehasha kana kupopota. Munhu akapfava hana akazvitembha, anoziva kuti akawanikwa nani uye pamusha pake ndepapi. Musi waanoudza murume kuti ari kuhwa musoro, murume anobva aziva kuti musoro chaiwo kwete wekuda kuramba kuvata nomurume.

Handidi kuwanza nyaya iyi asi kungoti ngatikurudzirei varume vedu kuti zvokuverenga maRHAUNDHI handizvo. Chero chimwana chiri mu Grade 2 chinokwanisa uverenga kusvika ku3.  Mumba mukadzi anoda murume anoti afidhiwa oziva kuti zvaitigwa kuti agotora nguva pabasa tigovata zvakanaka. Munhu verengawo kuti mukadzi wako aita maORGASM mangani kwete kuti iwe wamupinza kangani. Pane kuzvirova dundundu tanga waona mukadzi wako achizvirova dundundu kuti akagona kusarudza.

Varume hwisisai kuti ukapinza chombo mumukadzi wako ukamukoira kwenguva yakareba ndizvo zvinonaka izvozvo. Kana wangomudiridzira chete, mukati munozara urume, kukwizirana kwechombo nechitubu koita kushoma, ukuzve mukadzi anotanga kuvhinza urume zvokuti unoona achizvipukuta, fungwa yotanga kubhowekana nomurume kuti sei apedza ini ndisina kupedza. Hino ipapo varume vakawanda unoona obatwa nehope mkadzi azere zemo. Kufunga kuti unogadzirisa nyaya nokuzomukirawo mukadzi hazviiti zvachose. Kutowedzera kubhowa mukadzi wako zvisina kana basa.

Apa handisi kuti hatidi kumutsigwa zvinhu. Kana murume akapepuka pakati peusiku akafunga zvokuwedzera, ngaawedzere hake. Hapana chakaipa. Asi ipapo pokutanga pedza mukadzi shungu avatewo hope. Zvinhu izvi ndezvedu tese saka ngatigute tese. Vakadzi vakawanda vanoti murume apedza RHAUNDHI  yake akabatwa nehope iye mukadzi osara akasvinura zemo riya ratangwa risina kupera asi kuti ratowedzera, obva abvibatsira nemaoko. Vazhinji vakatozodzidza zvemaoko izvi varoogwa iri ngari yevarume vemaRHOUNDHI. Varume hwisisaiwo Please.

RHAUNDHI handiyo inonaka. Murume kana atora zhira nefungwa yemarhaundhi, chiziva kuti upenyu hwekunakigwa hwatopera kusvika adzidza kuti uri munhuwo anotodawo zvaanoda iye. Unongomuka zuva nezuva wakazadzwa urume mukati nemuzvidya asi zemo risina kupera. Ukasatozvibatsira iro bhinya rako ravata unoona kuti hapana chako pamusha uyu. Iye anongoita chandagwinyira wemarhaundhi.

Varumewo hwisisai kuti marhaundhi ndeezvikomana zvekumusha zvinofudza mbudzi zvisanhi zvahwisisa kuti mukadzi anobatwa sei. Murume mukuru siyana nemarhaundhi upfidzise mukadzi wako ipapo paunotanga kumuisa. Ipapo ngaazive kuti aiswa, kwete kumusiya ari pakati iwe wombovata hope, wozomuka futi uchida kupedzisa mukadzi atambura nezemo maawa matatu.  Wufuza hwakadii uhwu. Varume tipeiwo masiriyasi panyaya iyi. Ten minutes uri mukati uchiita basa ipapo pokutanga ukuwo uchikwenyerera bhinzi nokusveta zamu kana mutsiba, uchiterera kuchemerera kwemukadzi wako.

Kwete kuzoda zvokumukira iwe wambomutadza uye wambobhowa mukadzi. Hazvisizvo. Titaridzeiwo kuti tine varume mudzimba. Ndigoti nhasi ndazvipedzisa zemo, mangwana ndozvipedzisazve, mwedzi wese ndisinawo kumbohwiswa pane moyo here? Ndogoti murume ndomudii? Ndakaroogwa nemaoko angu here? Pano ndakatouyawo nokuda kwekuti iwe murume wangu uri pano. Ibasa rako kundigutsa pakuvatana kwedu. Itawo masiriyasi nenyaya iyi udzidze kunonoka kudiridzira ndinakigwewo sezvaunoita.  Murume itawo shungu dzokurhoja mukadzi wako zvinonaka. Kana wada kupamhidzira pamhidzira hako asi gutsa paRHOUNDHI yokutanga iyoyo ndichine zemo rakawanda.

Panyaya iyi vanhukadzi tiri tese hedu. Varume tatosiyana navo kare kare. zvinotovashungurudza kuti inyaya yeiko iri pano nokuti mhomho yavo inofunga kuti kupinzwa kwemaminitsi maviri kukaitwa kashanu pazuva kunonaka kupfuura kupinzwa kwemaminitsi gumi kwaitwa kamwe chete. Bodo  handizvo. Zemo rinoda kuti wapinza kokutanga wotora nguva woripedza. Usabatwa nehope mukadzi achine zemo. Pedza zemo rake mugovata henyu. Zvemarhaundhi siyira zvanana zvemahumbwe.


Aterera ahwisisa ngaachienda anoita zvinodiwa.


Udza vamwe!!!!!

Small house yemukadzi wako

Vanotevera nyaya dzemafambire ema COMMUNITY kunyika dzese vanoti ivo zvese zvinoitwa nevarume iri nyaya yokudzvinyirira vakadzi, zvinopedzisira zvaitwawo nevakadzi nengari yokuti zvinoonekwa sezvinhu zvinofanira kuitwa kana tese takafanana paSOCIAL Importance yedu. Ukatarisa kunyika dzinohi dzakabudirira, uchaona kuti mazuvano hakuchina zvokuti uyu mukadzi/murume wanhiingi. Umwe noumwe nanongovata newaada musi iwoyo. Kune zvinohi

Open marriage kureva kuti munoroorana henyu asi ukachiva umwe munhu unouya naye kumba woratidza murume/mukadzi wako, motombobikirana tii momwa mese muri vatatu, pakunovata iwe wosiya mukadzi wako kana murume wako wonovata nouya wawauya naye kumba, wako asinei nazvo. Umwewo musi iyewo ouyawo newaachiva ovata naye.

Poitazve vamwe vanovata nevarume/vakadzi vaviri pamubhedha umwe chete. Umwe uku umwe uku. Ipapo rhoji chaiyo haugoni saka chawadira vakadzi/varume vaviri sembwa chii.?

Koitazve vamwe vanoroorana nemhuka dzavo, imbwa, dhongi, mbudzi, mombe, gwai. nedzimwewo mhuka. Ukazvirondedzegwa unofunga kuti vanhu vava kutopenga, wozoona kuti mhunhu wacho ari kutotaura ane masiriyasi chaiwo. Vamwe kutobuda pa TV vachitaura nezvazvo.

Pakatanga zvemasmall house evarume muZimbabwe, vakawanda vaiseka varume vakadai, asi takazoona vaya vaseki vava kuzviitawo. Ikozvino chero munhu ava kungoitawo small house yake vanhu vachitoona kuti paitika mhuri  ine vana apa. Small house ndeyokubvuma kuvata nomukadzi anovata nevamwe varume, mobatsirana kurera vana vake. Hazvina kusiyana nevavo vanovata vari vatatu kana vana mumubhedha umwe chete.  Kungosiyana kuti mukadzi wemumba nesmall house havawirirani uye BUDGET havaitiri pamwe chete.

Pano ndoda kuti isu sevanhu vane tsika dzavo, tihwisise zviri kuitika kutsika dzedu, uye kuti zvichaperera kupi. Ndatanga nokutaura kuti varume ndivo vanotanga nyaya asi vakadzi vanotopedzisira vadzitawo chete.  Gore rakapera takaverenga nyaya yokuti kune mukadzi wemuZimbabwe ane varume vaviri. Musafunga kuti ndiye ega, vakatowanda. Zivaizve kuti vachawedzera kuwanda. Kune vaya vanoti vakahwa nyaya yakadai voseka, tichazokuonaiwo majoina nyaya dzakadaro mavemi mava kuzviita. Ipapo mapepanhau anenge asisinei nazvo.

Chaunofanira kuziva ndechokuti pane zvese zvatinoita, nokupopotedzana kwedu, nokutukana, nokuhurirana mumba, vana vedu vanozviona. Hazviiti kuti unoita chinhu chinoputsa musha vana vagotadza kuzviziva. Pakuzviziva apa vana vanodzidza mafambire azvo. Kana vakura vanokwanisawo kuzozviita asi vachitowedzera kupfuura pawakasiira ipapo. Mwana ane makore manomwe kana masere, akaziva kuti baba vake vari kukwira mbudzi kana kuti mai vake vari kukwigwa nembwa, poshaya anosungigwa nyaya yacho, anokwanisa kukura achifunga kuti ndiwo maitire evabereki saka hapana chakaipa kuzviitawo.

Ukatarisa kuvarume vanogarorova vakadzi vavo, unoona kuti baba vake vairova mai vake. sekuru vake vairova mbuya vake zvichienda zvakadaro.

Pakuzowedzera apa ndipo patinoona kuti nyaya haichadi kugadzirika. Kana baba vaiita zve small house mai vachiratidzaa kuti havanei nazvo, mwana akazokurawo anokwanisa kuita saizvozvo. Kana ari muskana anokwanisa kuona sekuti kuva nevarume vokuvaa navo vakawanda hapana chakaipa. Ndosaka ndichiti vanababa chenjerai dzidziso yamuri kupa kuvana venyu. iwe wachembera unenge une vazukuru vako vakazvagwa nomwana wako varipo vashanu. Umwe noumwe ane baba vake. Poita umwe ane madzibaba maviri anobhadhara mari pamwedzi. ese  nokuti mwanasikana wako haazivi kuti baba vemwana uyu chaivo ndevapi.

Pamakore anouya tichazoona kuti vakadzi vava kujoinawo kuita ma Small house avo asi uku ane murume wemumba. Anoita mimba avata nevarume vaviri kana vatatu, murume ari kuSOUTH AFRICA. Anobva akasira kukwira bhazi otevera murume. Musi waanosvikako kunosvika kuma THREE achingochemerera murume Mazuva maviri akapera okwira bhazi odzoka, kwahi ndange ndavinga mari yevana vechikoro. Vana vatatu mumba, madzibaba matatu. Uyawo murume kuSouth Africa kwaari uko ari kugadzirawo vana nevakadzi veko achizvirova dundundu, kwahi ndakakwanisa kuti mukadzi auye akasaona small house dzangu.

Vakadzi vava kutevedzera varume pamaitire avo. Musaudzwa nhema kuti varume ndivo vega vanogona Small house. Mukadzi akakubata uchizviita, akakupopotera, akachema akaudza hama dzake akanokudanira Pastor vokuchechi, iwe ukaona sokuti uri kutowana attention wotodada nazvo iye achigara asina kuguta, ziva kuti kuzvijaidza kurera vana vemahure vaunofunga kuti ndevako kwakuparira nokuti wako iyeye wawakabvisa humhandara, achakuunzirawo mwana wehure rake ugomuchengeta.

Equality iri kutouya munyika dzese. Usafunga kuti zviri kuEUROPE neAMERICA chete. Hakuchina bazi roupenyu rinosara risina Equality. Kana waroorana nomunhu, chirongai yokugutsana mumba. Ukada zvokuti uku mukadzi haana kuguta iwe wotombonopa imwewo mai yakatozarawo urume hwezvimwe zvikomba, unopedzisira wazadzigwawo wako nechimwe chikomba. Mumba maita EQUALITY chaiyo, asi uriwe wazvitanga.

UDZAI VAmwe!!!!